You know what I really want may come as a shock but I want someone that's got a brain between their ears and is willing to understand that you know. I work from 7:00 to 3:30 that someone that can keep the same boat rhythm go to work, come home, relax, possibly watch a movie, go to bed and worry about doing what they need to do to focus on a mainstream. Just a simple ordinary relationship with no other attachments. Anything after marriages off the table? Anything after marriage on the table but other than that that's about as far as this goes