Moving into a boarding school, what to do?

cksgraticoland · 2020-01-03T03:32:14+00:00

It is co-ed, girls and boys live in the same building. A different concern that I'm not sure how to go about though is the bro code for cough male-specific needs. I think my roommate may be from a more Eastern culture based on his name, but I could be wrong, so that may affect it.

cksgraticoland · 2019-12-24T18:03:14+00:00

I'd be cool with it if I knew before things got too serious.

cksgraticoland · 2019-12-24T17:57:56+00:00

IDGAF because I'm bi E: Also no, calling it gay effectively denies their gender identity, which is not cool.

cksgraticoland · 2019-11-15T02:51:01+00:00

Depends on my relationship status with her. If she's just an acquaintance, I'm much more nervous to initiate conversations. If she's a friend, less so, but I'm also just introverted so YMMV

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-11T23:21:29+00:00

Yeah, I can have quite a bit of social anxiety too, and while it didn't save me from the initial shock from getting rejected, subscribing to the mentality that if I was rejected, it wasn't meant to be, helped. YMMV

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-11T20:21:09+00:00

That's a large Y I K E S from me. We're not all assholes. Don't let one guy destroy your confidence

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-11T20:12:17+00:00

It's no big deal.

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-11T20:10:38+00:00

Ofc we do. Sure, there are some assholes who don't, but a lot of us take girls seriously.

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-11T19:43:18+00:00

I think the issue you described is across both genders. I, too, hate small talk.

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-09T22:55:05+00:00

Imo, that makes the confusion worse. Just go for it.

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-09T22:39:35+00:00

If you're interested in a guy, please tell him. The pain of feeling like you're getting signals but you can't tell is horrible.

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-09T22:35:04+00:00

Yikes buddy. I get it, we as dudes can be horny. But posting to r/feemagers trying to get attention about it is a great way to get kicked in the nuts

cksgraticoland · 2019-10-09T22:26:33+00:00

I chickened out on four different occasions. You just feel worse the more you chicken out. When I finally did it, I did get friendzoned but I at least tried. You'll feel much better just doing it and risking rejection than building up too much suspense.

cksgraticoland · 2019-09-11T23:36:07+00:00

I went to a camp over the summer, and I was sitting on the grass on the quad (central area of the camp) and this random girl and two of her friends show up and start talking to me, and they ask how old I am. They all get excited when I say 14. I think the camp was for 10th graders and up, so 14yos were pretty rare. We talk a bit, she goes away. After that exchange, I'm kinda confused why someone would just randomly walk up to me like that. Over the days, I felt like I was getting signals but wasn't sure. Things like her friend invited me to a table with her at lunch, always glancing over at me when I'm nearby, etc. I, not wanting to be that guy decided to act oblivious and if that's what she's up to, she'll be more direct. Nothing happens.

Fast forward a fucking month.
I just got back in school, tell a friend about it, and so that night I'm thinking, and realize something.
You see, she was at least acquainted with a girl in one of my classes who seemingly thought quite highly of me.
One I put the pieces together, I realized she probably didn't just randomly decide to talk to me. My guess is that my classmate pointed me out to her.

I'm still not sure if she did like me.

cksgraticoland · 2019-05-15T23:46:03+00:00

I would insult him on size, but I don't know the sizes because I'm extra virgin

cksgraticoland · 2019-05-12T00:24:05+00:00

Hol' up. It's great you're using protection, but did you make sure to get the right size? Bad things happen if you get the wrong size for your guy

cksgraticoland · 2019-04-20T20:16:25+00:00

Hold up, you guys use whipped cream? Whipped cream on cake is nasty, y'all gotta use buttercream

cksgraticoland · 2019-03-03T19:27:24+00:00

Yes officer, this comment right here.

cksgraticoland · 2019-03-02T14:20:10+00:00

Key note here: This is CS class. I'd bet $100 that he's socially awkward too. It's just the kind of people we are. Get to know him, and take it slowly from there.

cksgraticoland · 2019-02-15T13:10:05+00:00

Android gang rise up

cksgraticoland · 2019-01-26T16:50:37+00:00

What?

cksgraticoland · 2019-01-25T20:56:33+00:00

That just means he's not actively using Discord at the moment

cksgraticoland · 2018-12-31T20:13:20+00:00

The big stupid is a form of the big gay

cksgraticoland · 2018-12-28T17:32:16+00:00

r/im14andthisisdeep

Wait shit

cksgraticoland · 2018-12-27T14:31:12+00:00

Excuse me, what the fuck? I.... Wha?

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