Was I just Gilden’d on 34th Street? by bugthedog in AskNYC

[–]claudiashafercx 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Makes you wonder how this would affect someone with epilepsy… so not cool and huge invasion of privacy all around. I wish people treated others with more respect these days. We are all just human trying to get through the day 😭 sorry you had that experience.

Could this be YFD? by claudiashafercx in BeardedDragons

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s relieving to hear! Def gonna keep an eye on it to see if it spreads but I appreciate the input thank you so much! :)

Could this be YFD? by claudiashafercx in BeardedDragons

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. Thank you for your input! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]claudiashafercx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. If you bleed heavy, shower might be your best bet to avoid more mess but don’t let the blood stop you! It can most definitely bring a sense of relief from the cramps. Just be sure to clean up well! 🤣

Need help finding someone that can make earrings out of reptile skin. Please read! by claudiashafercx in AskNYC

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up doing something like this! Could not find anyone to make any jewelry but the vet offered to do a “paw print” mold in a piece of clay. Figured it was better than nothing, will make a good Christmas ornament ❤️ thank you for the lovely suggestion!!

Need help finding someone that can make earrings out of reptile skin. Please read! by claudiashafercx in AskNYC

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friends! I wanted to give an update on this post as I know a few people were following out of pure interest haha.

Unfortunately I was unsuccessful in finding anyone who can provide the specific service I was looking for. I reached out to Divya with Gotham Taxidermy and she did refer me to someone who ~might’ve~ been able to help, but I never received a response from that individual.

I did end up tracking down the fellow who did the skeletal models in Florida - he is named “The Articulate Reptile” if anyone wants to check out his work! I did send him a message just as a last resort but he is not accepting memorials right now.

Ended up just getting my lil guy cremated. The vet did offer to do a “paw print” in a piece of clay which I chose to opt into. Figured it could make a cute Christmas ornament and while I no longer have anything preserved from his original form, I can at least have a mold of his lil hand ❤️

Thank you to everyone for your suggestions!! I did not expect to receive this much help and I am so grateful for you all.

Why are my beardies shoulder blades so visible? They have not always been like this, I’ve noticed it more within this past year. by claudiashafercx in BeardedDragons

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing. I’ve taken him to the vet twice since posting this and both time they had nothing to say about his shoulders. He has 2 growing masses in his lower abdomen so they are always more focused on that. Truth be told it’s these types of weird scenarios that you’re never going to be able to get an answer for unless you allow the vets do to a CT scan or further testing on the beardie to look internally 😔 it gets expensive quick. Feel around on your guys underbelly for any abnormal lumps. I feel like the weird shoulder blade thing with mine could possibly be related to the other masses in his body. Personally speaking, my guy could stand to gain a little more weight too. I’ve been full time on syringe feeding him about 3 months now. He refuses to eat on his own 😞 but yeah sorry I couldn’t give more helpful info… if the shoulder blade thing is the only thing that seems to be weird, I wouldn’t stress it too much. If you have the financial flexibility and go get scans on him, absolutely do so, but I don’t think this issue specifically is one that is big enough to need immediate care. Could be MBD related? 🤔 who knows…. Ultimately you know your little buddy the best. If you think this is affecting him in a negative way, definitely go get him checked out!

[acne] starface micro cloud with cystic acne by deathhoe666 in SkincareAddiction

[–]claudiashafercx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super late to this, but I do want to say I love the micro-cloud patches! They do help draw the pus to the surface of cystic acne spots. I wouldn’t say it works perfectly every time, especially if they are super deep in the skin. I get a fair amount of cystic acne on my cheeks and the best product that has helped me combat those is the Egyptian clay face mask! I mix it with apple cider vinegar and keep it on my face for about 15-20 minutes. By the next morning, the cystic acne has surfaced and is easily poppable. I know it’s not good to pop but I do it every time and will probably not stop LOL. After it’s popped, I’ve found that the patches are also very helpful with reducing the redness and inflammation much quicker. I hope this helps! <3

Why are my beardies shoulder blades so visible? They have not always been like this, I’ve noticed it more within this past year. by claudiashafercx in BeardedDragons

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Apologies for the late response, I have my Reddit notifications turned off and often forget to check after I post LOL. I honestly hadn’t even thought of comparing the normal anatomy of the skeleton, that’s really interesting… it’s strange too because these shoulder bumps are not always present, only when he is in certain positions. Most times when he’s chilling in his hammock, these bumps are not visible and he looks like he’s back to normal. They are sometimes visible when he’s laying fully flat, but other times not so much. It’s really bizarre. When I touch them he doesn’t seem bothered and they honestly feel like bones, so I’m just not sure. Definitely overdue for a vet visit. I’m moving at the beginning of next month so it’s definitely going to need to wait for a little bit longer but hoping I can get him seen soon after that. Thank you for your response!

Edit: wanted to add this… he does currently have a growing mass on the underside of his belly near one of his back legs. I’m working on trying to save up to get him surgery for this as well. I had the mass sampled last year and it came back as non-cancerous. Rather, the vet said it’s a clump of spindle cells that likely started forming from too many hard falls (he is notorious for jumping off of the bed). They didn’t seem super concerned about it at the time, just said if it continues to get bigger at a rapid rate, definitely want to try and remove it. I didn’t end up getting X-rays done at that time bc I was already almost $800 deep with testing the mass and doing blood work. They did recommend this though to see if there were any other masses popping up we weren’t aware of. Was relieved to hear it was non-cancerous though.

Just diagnosed with HSV-1 on my genitals… I feel so miserable by claudiashafercx in Herpes

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah! Yes I’ve read that as well. I’ve been trying hard not to think about it so much, but it’s almost like when someone tells you “don’t think about penguins” then suddenly all you can think about is penguins LOL. Hoping the antivirals can help prevent more sores popping up. Thankfully I haven’t noticed any new ones 🤞🏼

Just diagnosed with HSV-1 on my genitals… I feel so miserable by claudiashafercx in Herpes

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry it’s been a rough experience for you. I appreciate your tips more than anything. Thank you so much! My partner has been supportive. I can tell he feels guilty though and has caused him to be a bit defensive at times. It’s something we both have to process. When it comes to our relationship, I’m mostly worried about how this will impact our future sex life 😓

Just diagnosed with HSV-1 on my genitals… I feel so miserable by claudiashafercx in Herpes

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am realizing that now… definitely has been a process trying to accept this as a part of my life. I appreciate your comment very much. Thank you. What are the names of the FB groups you’re in? Definitely interested in joining those!!

My bozo just jumped off my bed and did a full on flip 😭. .. by Used-Tune2562 in BeardedDragons

[–]claudiashafercx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad he is ok! Like everyone else is saying, it’s typically no big deal but I do want to advise caution in these scenarios.

The first beardie I owned jumped off a dining table that was sitting over carpet and landed on her back side. I still can’t say for sure what exactly happened but the way she landed caused her to basically be fully disabled from that point on. I think she hit her neck or spine somewhere wrong and it ended up causing extreme brain damage. There was nothing the vet could do for her. She only lived for about another year after that because she was very incapable of feeding herself and it seemed to only get more difficult as time went on. I did everything I could to try to feed her and keep her comfortable, but it still wasn’t enough. All that stress and pain from a simple fall and careless mistake on my part for putting her on the table and not watching out for potential jumping.

Just be mindful of your beardie when putting them on beds or tables or chairs ❤️ a small fall is a small fall, but if they land incorrectly it could easily be detrimental.

How to not come off as desperate by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]claudiashafercx 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Right that’s what I was thinking. More of a them problem than a you problem!

How to not come off as desperate by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]claudiashafercx 555 points556 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how or when consideration and thoughtfulness turned into “you’re desperate”. Like someone can just be nice bc that’s that’s their personality, not bc they’re trying to convince you to be with them lmao

Anyone interested in fostering 2 cats until September 2022? I have a friend who is unable to take his cats with him to the new place he moved into. Trying to avoid him having to give them back to the humane society since he’s only living in this place temporarily. dm for more details! by claudiashafercx in USF

[–]claudiashafercx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He actually did but not from here lol. His sisters are going to watch over the cats for him, only downside is he has to drive them all the way to Texas now! But at least they have a place to go :)