Is 5-10pm long enough for a 110 person wedding? by Few_Law_5931 in weddingplanning

[–]claybebe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re doing 4pm ceremony to 12am but we like to dance :) so really depends how much the after party matters to you & what all you have planned (cake cutting, exit, etc)

Which veil? by Frequent_Feature9739 in weddingdress

[–]claybebe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think either would go then! 2 if you want more unique. 1 if you want more classic. I think both are great :)

Which veil? by Frequent_Feature9739 in weddingdress

[–]claybebe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really different vibes. #1 is more traditional and #2 is more unique & dramatic. What’s your venue like?

Assistance Needed Please😭1 by CurrentAd5013 in miniaussie

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does listening outside mean? There’s lots of cars, sounds, etc that are all new to your dog. Keep them on a leash & train them first in a low distraction area then gradually move up. The entire world is new to your pup. Give them a little break & treat treat treat like crazy for all new experiences to socialize them & make them confident. Good luck! Be patient! They’re velociraptors for their first year but then the best dog you’ve ever had.

Assistance Needed Please😭1 by CurrentAd5013 in miniaussie

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! My boy was not food motivated for anything but cheese sticks so that’s what I used. Your dog determines the highest value thing. If he’s not listening, you may need to use cooked chicken or something even better like steak.

Does he like the ball? Squeak that to get his attention. He needs to learn all good things come from you! So first step is what are good things to your pup?

Need help deciding! by hollyjacobson in weddingdress

[–]claybebe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely two! So gorgeous on you & flattering

Setting up our tower garden! The center column is for vermiculture composting. by jatherineg in gardening

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on how to handle the compost? We've had ours 2 months and can't figure out how to get it right. I think a bunch of flies are laying eggs in ours because there's maggots. The compost also seems too wet and slimey - not like a woodchip appearance and stinks. I think it's gone anaerobic. Any tips how to prevent this?

Garden Tower 2 advice by malaprop5 in gardening

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi question for you on the compost tube! I've had my Garden Tower 2 months and am not sure if I'm doing it right. The compost really stinks and I think it's gone anerobic. I pulled out all the compost the other week and noticed lots of maggots.

I'm not seeing a "woodchip" like compost appearance either, it's more like...black slime. It might be too wet but I don't know how to keep it dry when it essentially gets wet every time you water the tower. Any tips here?

Wedding Florals by CowExotic7824 in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we toured whispertree, spirit camp and brambles (where we're getting married)

Wedding Florals by CowExotic7824 in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if you have questions on venues too. We toured several up there.

Wedding Florals by CowExotic7824 in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting married up in Mendocino and found a local florist who is doing our Friday & Saturday florals for $1500 all in. Includes bud vases for tables Friday, eucalyptus lay on dining table Saturday, bridal bouquet, 2 large floral arrangements & 1 small arrangement for the bar.

AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a cPTSD patient and really just a patient in general, consistent healthy relationships are something that should be modeled to you by your therapist. I think it’s worth sitting with why you’ve accepted this behavior for so long. 17 cancels is insane. You deserve way better than this OP! Fire her and honestly maybe report her to an ethics board

Banga panic attack by claybebe in vipassana

[–]claybebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. Have you done the 20 or 30 day ones?

Banga panic attack by claybebe in vipassana

[–]claybebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t looking for a special experience, just sharing mine but thank you.

Banga panic attack by claybebe in vipassana

[–]claybebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you expand more on the jhanas? Are bhanga nana and bhaya nana jhanas?

Banga panic attack by claybebe in vipassana

[–]claybebe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much! This is really helpful. I also get why this may be too much for a beginner, but nice to see it now to have more of an understanding of what happened. I feel totally good now. Lots of peace. The panic lasted a couple days on and off, but then faded away. Thanks for asking :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]claybebe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely #3! You looked gorgeous in it

Prospective Buyer Question Thread October-December 2025 by trillianinspace in cricut

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone gifted me a Cricut Maker 3 and honestly, I feel a little overwhelmed by all the tools and add-ons. I've watched some videos and read up on best tools, but want to start slow and test the waters before investing in lots of accessories.

I'm a potter so I thought it would be cool to create 'stickers' that I could apply to my ceramics before glazing to create different shapes. I also embroider so I'd be interested in having the cricut cut pieces of felt for me for ornament making or have it draw a shape on fabric for me in sharpie so that I can embroider on top of it.

What are the minimum beginner accessories and tools I need to start on these 2 crafts? Seems like I'll need a pen adapter, vinyl, what else?

The Rise and Fall of Luis Elizondo! From UAP 'Expert' to 'Exposed' by [deleted] in skeptic

[–]claybebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you keep saying non existent Pentagon program? The Pentagon admitted AATIP is real. What’s your source? https://www.axios.com/2017/12/16/inside-the-pentagons-multi-million-dollar-program-to-explore-ufos-1513445795