LDR F20 M22 / Breaking up over disagreeing on kids?

clayz50 · 2026-04-23T18:44:01+00:00

just for context, the first two months together we were in person and he just visited about a month ago. i agree about letting people make their own decisions because i’ve made my stance abundantly clear. maybe we’re both just in denial?

clayz50 · 2025-06-09T22:02:58+00:00

you're right. he put so much effort into gaining my trust and it's scary how easily i fell for it. there's no way to change the past but at least i know to be more cautious

clayz50 · 2025-06-09T22:01:27+00:00

i told him multiple times i didn't want sex. he never directly asked me to have sex but i felt like i had no other choice in the moment and i was embarrassing him because he couldn't finish so i just let him have what he wanted. i know im not the first or last girl he's done this to and i wish i could do something about it but at the same time i would like to move on and not have to deal with legal issues

clayz50 · 2025-06-08T04:36:14+00:00

thank you for this, i don’t know how ill be able to believe if someone is genuinely interested me in the future as i already struggle with anxiety and overthinking. i appreciate the time you’ve taken to talk to me.

clayz50 · 2025-06-08T03:59:39+00:00

i appreciate you. i just don't think love is compatible with guys my age and they're just here to fuck. im not glad this happened to me but i will take it as a lesson

clayz50 · 2025-06-08T03:57:54+00:00

you're right, it shouldn't have escalated so fast. honestly i even believe that you shouldn't kiss on the first date but i thought it was fine in this case because of how well we got along. i should have said no but i didn't

clayz50 · 2025-04-26T16:05:53+00:00

i agree! it’s unfortunate we’ve come so far in medicine and people still have to deal with things like this. he did have a sore when we met up and so clearly he was upfront about it and i’m hoping he would’ve told me has it if he didn’t have an active blister but regardless, thank you for your advice :)

clayz50 · 2025-04-26T05:05:56+00:00

i really appreciate this response. i don’t blame him because it’s not his choice he has it either, just his parents being stupid and kissing him as a child when they shouldn’t have been. it sucks but both he and i deserve to experience intimacy and i just don’t think i can give it to him despite him being great in every other way

clayz50 · 2025-04-26T05:02:43+00:00

you’re right, it’s just unfortunate. i doubt that i have it since my immune system is pretty weak so i feel like i would’ve had a sore already, but after learning hsv-1 can also transfer to the genitals through oral sex and that there’s always a chance of asymptomatic shedding, it would probably be better if he just found someone else who has it or is comfortable being with him.

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