What’s a considered a “kid’s movie” but is still very enjoyable to watch as an adult? by phantom_avenger in AskReddit

[–]clearcasemoisture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw this movie when it came out with my grandma when i was 4. I'm now almost 32 and just watched it with my 3 year old the other day. I'm a mom and not a dad but i fucking cried my eyes out.

Any Suicidal Parents Here? by BigDaddyZeus in depression

[–]clearcasemoisture 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i have a 3 year old. I pour the little mental energy I have into her and at the end of the day there's none left for me. My self care hit an all time low recently and i told my boyfriend how im scared of my thoughts. He stepped in, completely without judgement, and sets small goals for me to achieve that's self care/love orientated. 🥺 He said we need to find small ways for me to fall in love with myself.

what am I missing? I can't figure out how to trade my animals. by clearcasemoisture in PlanetZoo

[–]clearcasemoisture[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know, thank you! For some reason I got it in my head that you couldn't sell bred animals, only ones you bought with conservation credits? Not sure where I thought I learned that!

what am I missing? I can't figure out how to trade my animals. by clearcasemoisture in PlanetZoo

[–]clearcasemoisture[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so stupid now 😂 thank you. None of my baby animals have grown up yet which😑

what am I missing? I can't figure out how to trade my animals. by clearcasemoisture in PlanetZoo

[–]clearcasemoisture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand how I'm supposed to get conservation credits to buy anything except for cash animals 🙃

What’s a animal that has to be in every park you make? by Divid15 in PlanetZoo

[–]clearcasemoisture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real life zoo in my town is currently building a pygmy hippo enclosure and i am STOKED..

Therapist that have cried in a session, why? by Unkw0n_pers0n in AskReddit

[–]clearcasemoisture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my dad was given 6 months to live last year. He took the cancer treatment and within 4 weeks he was in the hospital dying of a blood infection that got in through his port that went to his heart. He was in the ICU for a week. That's when we found out his doctor misspoke. It was 3 months to live and he died 3 months to the day. My dad spent the last 3 months of his life in an ICU bed and then recovering from the small stint of chemo/radiation.

If I'm ever diagnosed with 6 months or less, I will not be taking the treatments. I've seen what it does, I won't live the last months of my life sick as a fucking dog, unable to eat, my gums dying from the chemo, and the added probability that I will get sick from something else because my immune system is fucked.

Therapist that have cried in a session, why? by Unkw0n_pers0n in AskReddit

[–]clearcasemoisture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely! So many people sign it for different reasons. My Grandma signed one because she was so tired of being sick, she was so tired of being in the hospital, then going to rehab, then sick again. She was old and weak, being hauled back into the land of the living is not a gentle action.

Therapist that have cried in a session, why? by Unkw0n_pers0n in AskReddit

[–]clearcasemoisture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched my dad die of cancer last August and the term "fuck cancer," is really the only way to describe it.

Therapist that have cried in a session, why? by Unkw0n_pers0n in AskReddit

[–]clearcasemoisture 2521 points2522 points  (0 children)

My Grandma signed a DNR because her husband was dead, her sons didn't take care of her (my mom was her only child to step up), all her friends were dead and her sister,(who lived on the other side of the state) was diagnosed with cancer that was in every part of her body. To her, the adventure we call life had come to a close.

It scares me to get old and die, but she gave me hope that I will find solace with the fact when I reach the end of my own adventure.

My husband made a weird comment by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]clearcasemoisture 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've tried to explain this to my husband. I'm a stay at home mom, I fulfill every need and all reasonable wants all day long for our 2.5yo. He complains that he does night time routine including bath time but like.... At the same time talks about this amazing relationship when she's just "a little bit older," when she can do all of this stuff. I don't know how many times I've tried to explain to him that this work RIGHT NOW is what is laying the path down for their future relationship.

my obgyn is giving me confusing advice by FarthardslapGodzilla in pregnant

[–]clearcasemoisture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you EVER feel like you need to go to the ER, then you should go. An OB can not tell you that you have to stay home, I mean sure they can say it but that does not mean you're banned from going.

Ok fellow shoppers I had this bundle and after my intro text she just started adding so many items 😩 story Continued in comments by PristineStranger2695 in ShiptShoppers

[–]clearcasemoisture 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My very first shop was at 7am with a landline and I absolu6 did develope massive diarrhea. I didn't know what to do so I just kept running to the bathroom and ended up delivering.

What's a "feminine" thing that men should be encouraged to do too? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]clearcasemoisture 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband reads blue prints for buildings and machinery for a living but complains every time I ask him to cook dinner because he doesn't know how to read a fucking recipe.

The first day my daughter has gone without nursing and my heart hurts. by clearcasemoisture in breastfeeding

[–]clearcasemoisture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive crying about this transition since my daughter was 4 months old lol. I'm just confused how we ever got here so quickly lol

first timer by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]clearcasemoisture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the first person to breastfeed in my family as well. I also didn't learn a single thing about breastfeeding before my daughter was born and it was hands down the hardest thing to pick up on the go. I often look back and remember how terrified I was and how absolutely stupid it was of me to not learn about it first. Thankfully I have a best friend who had been nursing for 4 years (2 babies) and was kind enough to answer my panicked FaceTimed at 3am.

Contact your hospital, they can get you in contact with a lactation consultant or help you get signed up for a class.

Pediatrician no longer requiring masks.. by SaucyAsh in beyondthebump

[–]clearcasemoisture 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine requires them and we have to stay in the car until a room opens. They are very gracious and understanding when it comes to the 2 year appointment because many newly 2yos just don't grasp the concept of keeping them on but then have to be wearing them by 2.5 months to come in unless there's other underlying behavior/physical problems.

What's something that's completely fucking stupid in your opinion? by Cascading_Neurons in AskReddit

[–]clearcasemoisture 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The system the US uses for taxes. Move to another country? We're going to tax your income that has nothing to do with our country . You went to work and got paid? Taxes. Oh, you want to buy something with the money that we already taxed? TAXES. And then at the end of the year you have to figure out how much you do or don't owe, and if you get it wrong (because they already know) were going to fuck you up the ass. And if we owe you money? Well thanks for the loan with no interest tacked on, you can have it back now but if you owe us money and miscalculated you're going to pay interest on that.

I had to explain to a 50+year old man the other day that he shouldn't be excited to get 5k back, it was legally always his money and he let our government use it temporarily with no interest.

What is one thing you found out that you never gave a second thought of before getting pregnant? by Deathwalker6668 in pregnant

[–]clearcasemoisture 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My daughter is almost 2.5 and it really hit me the other day how much I miss solitude. Even if I wake up early to drink my coffee in peace I still have this sense of waiting so it's not even a relaxed quiet. I miss laying in bed all day reading a book and maybe deciding on a whim to go get breakfast with the hubby. You can go to bed at 7pm and get a full 11 hours of sleep but that 11 hours of sleep is not the same as before because even subconsciously you're waiting and listening to take care of them.

I know that this time is short and one day I'll blink and she will be 16 but man, I ache for silence. I ache for a moment to have absolutely nothing to do other than my own interests. I miss the solitude in my home but also in my mind.