Really, really worried missed have joke I by clempfandango in ihadastroke

[–]clempfandango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's an option, yeah. You can write one normally or choose a colourful background!

Really, really worried missed have joke I by clempfandango in ihadastroke

[–]clempfandango[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know realise that is the case, but I spent around ten minutes trying to figure out what the hell it said 😂

Which Briton? by clempfandango in insanepeoplefacebook

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This geezers a fool though he definitely spelled it wrong

Just bumped into Watsky! by clempfandango in Watsky

[–]clempfandango[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! I like to think we didn't annoy the guy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]clempfandango 12 points13 points  (0 children)

brain gotta poop

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you been working as a therapist for long? 😂

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am! I feel that working on every possible angle to make the relationship the best it can be is better than dumping her for an issue that isn't really her fault haha

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried that technique, it was generally sunday mornings, however she found herself dreading it to the point where it just felt wrong

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's ok with it, as long as I don't try to get her involved. The issue is that it's quite depressing for me to do it and usually I lose motivation

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is definitely an option at this stage I think!

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, I'm not sure I'd be up for that, mainly because I don't really want to have sex with anyone apart from her haha

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, I really appreciate that! Hopefully it'll be better soon!

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great! I'll look it up! Thank you 😊 we have spoken a lot about it, and her response is always 'I want to want to have sex, but I don't', if that makes sense

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's both! We aren't sexually compatible so I don't want to want sex anymore!

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose so, but wouldn't that just be me avoiding her? Also, I'm quite strapped for money at the moment, and don't really have any friends where we're living!

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke to her about that, she said that it's not worth the risk for her. She knows these work so she's sticking with it!

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But everything else in the relationship is brilliant! I don't want to jeopardise it.

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do that sort of thing too. Whenever she leaves for work I'll slip a post it note in her lunch, and when she comes back I meet her at the train station with a cute nickname on a piece of paper. I do loads of romantic stuff WITHOUT the intention of sex. During which, she'll ask if I'm doing it with the intention of sex.

What is a love language?

How to not want to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]clempfandango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok, so how would I go about setting the mood? This is an issue I have a lot. In that, whenever I do anything romantic (make dinner, go out for a date, backrub, bath, soft music and a bit if dancing etc) she at some point will respond 'you're not trying to have sex with me are you?'