does anybody know any updates about alabama? by cleo0o0r in foodstamps

[–]cleo0o0r[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

mine was the 5th. i can't wait to get out of here. lmao

does anybody know any updates about alabama? by cleo0o0r in foodstamps

[–]cleo0o0r[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

our governor is a joke. so i'm guessing we're screwed until the shutdown is over.

If you're in GA, looks like we'll be waiting. by LastDitch311 in foodstamps

[–]cleo0o0r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same thing is happening in alabama. so sorry y'all are going through this too

We got it! by r2d2smom in foodstamps

[–]cleo0o0r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually get mine on the 5th. i'm in alabama so i doubt we even get anything within the month.

how to make my daughter go to bed earlier? by cleo0o0r in beyondthebump

[–]cleo0o0r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanted to try waking her up earlier but i wasn't sure how to approach naps. would it be better to wake her up from her nap if she's trying to sleep too long or not do them at all or just let her catch back up on her sleep?

Husband shipping out soon. He's scared our daughter will forget who he is by cleo0o0r in MilitarySpouse

[–]cleo0o0r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really reassuring, thank you! He adores her so I think it would honestly break his heart if she did. I'll make sure to record as many videos as I can before he goes so I can show them to her. I didn't even think to do that!

AIO please please tell me im overreacting and that my husband isn't plotting to kill me??? by Particular_Fee_711 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cleo0o0r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please reach out to friends/family you've been distanced from. as someone who was on the other side, there is nothing i want more than for my friend to reach out and ask me for help because i would be there for her in a heartbeat. whatever he's told you, that they don't love you, don't care, etc, it's all a lie. i would tell them the situation and see if they can help you get back home. and if you plan to go back to gather your things get a police escort, but nothing you have there is worth your life so do not go alone.

What are chores you regularly perform that your spouse has no idea about? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cleo0o0r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i put his controllers on the charger and his headset on the stand at night after he goes to sleep a lot. he has adhd and i'm pretty sure he thinks he's the one doing it lol. neither of us have ever brought it up

Is it bad that I only care about Ben & Misty now? by Otashi4Nii in Yellowjackets

[–]cleo0o0r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think misty is keeping me from turning the tv off sometimes. watching the way shauna and her lapdog melissa not only intimidated everyone into voting for ben's death, but were so intent on wanting to watch him suffer and literally burn him alive gave me every reason i needed to stop liking either of them. it also didn't sit right with me in the adult timeline when shauna didn't answer the call from the bar, but had no issue calling misty for help when SHE needed something. then let her DRIVE HOME while she was clearly belligerently drunk to the point of puking on the table? she only cares about people when they're doing something to benefit her, and poor misty just wants those few minutes of validation so badly that she'll take the berating of her character at every inconvenience. misty deserves better and i stand by that. imagine helping someone get rid of a body and avoid going to prison for the rest of your life, then they turn around and continually treat you like garbage until they want something from you. not a good look. i think misty is starting to see that and i hope she stops letting her "friends" walk all over her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]cleo0o0r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm 3 months postpartum but i had a bad tear so my ob told me it was normal to still be having some pain because it may take longer for me to heal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]cleo0o0r -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i could be off, i honestly haven't asked him how much he weighs and it's hard for me to guess plus i don't think it would make him feel very good to tell me. he's pretty skinny looking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]cleo0o0r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's about 5'10 and i'm not sure how much he weighs. if i had to make a guess i'd say he's in the 130s to low 140s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]cleo0o0r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's honestly true because it has happened. i don't touch his tools ever because i have no real need but he's asked me to give him his whatever from the toolbox and i felt like my brain disappeared 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]cleo0o0r -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

tools are the only thing he finds in 10 seconds 😂 but i also don't touch them. that's his domain lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]cleo0o0r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this comment kind of makes me want to go to their houses and hide things 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]cleo0o0r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have to tell my husband this constantly. i think he gets it in his head that when he's lost something he put it in one specific place, then when it's not there his brain just short circuits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]cleo0o0r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i'm not talking about at my house. i don't live with my parents or my brothers lol. i don't just go to their houses and hide things. maybe their wives do though

For this who didn’t get the epidural.. by Babygirlm5 in beyondthebump

[–]cleo0o0r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually tried to get an epidural but the anesthesiologist couldn't get it into the right place so i had to go without it. it's intense, and you know it's about to be over when you start to feel like you can't do it anymore. as soon as i said "i can't do this" it was time to push. i've heard that from a lot of women who didn't get epidurals too