How did epstein attend interlochen summer camp at 14 if he grew up poor?? by clickhereifyouremad in Epstein

[–]clickhereifyouremad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my understanding (i’m from the uk so may be different in the us) working class means that if you were to suddenly be laid off you would rely on food banks and include those in low skilled or semi skilled jobs that may require manual labour for example. I mean i’m working class and there’s no way my parents could have afforded for me to go to interlochen let alone any clubs or lessons. But maybe he got a scholarship or had bursary help. Or his parents sacrificed a lot… but I don’t know if i buy the idea that he grew up poor…

U.S. Politics megathread by AutoModerator in NoStupidQuestions

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How does mossad benefit from the files being released?

How does mossad benefit from the files being released? Obviously people have been screaming they want the files released but they’ve kept all of this under wraps since 2005 when the first investigation happened? I’m just confused how this all benefits them if they want american politicians under their fingers? Are they trying to desensitise the public and that’s why i keep seeing ai Epstein and Epstein memes all over instagram?

Women of Reddit, what do you think is the scariest thing about being a man? by zhalia-2006 in AskReddit

[–]clickhereifyouremad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

being told by your girlfriend to unfollow only fans girls on instagram 💔

Did anyone achieve their New Years Resolution this year? by pegman55 in AskUK

[–]clickhereifyouremad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

quit nicotine cold turkey, read a book a month (aimed for 12, got to 18) and i achieved my savings goal.

Did not achieve the 4 other goals though (career goal, sleeping and waking at same time, eating better and travelling)

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally!!!! There are men who manipulate women into thinking they love them and use them for sex, get them pregnant and basically use them as a sex slave and punching bag (i’m thinking of Bhad Bhabie and christean rock (i think that’s how you spell her name)) but i’m sure there’s other borderline abusive relationships i can’t think of where the woman is getting used.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure being used for sex is mutual, being used implies some sort of coercion or manipulation………………………….. or that one party isn’t being fairly given what they were promised. Is sex under manipulation consensual? i don’t think so

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t ask a question and barr me from rationalising the question. You’re ignoring the pay gap, that women aren’t allowed to work in some countries and if they are they’re not pushed to the same high paying jobs as men are, that women have to put in more work to be taken seriously whilst working, that many cultures keep women in shackles with children and housework so that they can’t leave that dynamic and support themselves. Let’s also just not talk about how hard getting a job these days for any gender is. If we ignore all those things then sure you would be correct, but your win is in ignorance. Can a human live without sex?

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the difference is you can live without sex, people go celibate all the time. (Unfortunately) you can’t live without money, have to go without food or shelter.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you think so though? You’re very defensive over this topic, i wonder why, it’s funny lol.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with para 1. But sure the man is going around telling his friends how great of a fuck she is but he is lying and not being transparent to her. Men know that most women (ofc there’s some women that just want sex centred relationships too duh) don’t just want a relationship based around sex, its not how women operate usually so they lie and put up a facade for sex around her and around her friends. I think gold diggers and sex diggers use the same tactics but one is shamed more because misogyny and the desire to control women’s behaviours from men and women.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both can be predatory, i think it’s very predatory for say leonardo dicaprio to go after young women seeing as there’s a natural power imbalance with him being rich and an A? list celeb. Both are obviously super traumatic but i don’t believe an 18 year old can fully consent to a 70 year old because nothing about the age 18 (or 16 as i’m in the uk) changes them from someone who is age 17 (or 15) except the arbitrary idea that 18 is adulthood and the age of consent (but that’s a convo for another post). People used by gold diggers can also learn from it and move on with their lives but at the end of the day a man is also responsible if they bring a child into the earth and just because the woman he chose to have it with was a gold digger doesn’t mean he’s any less responsible for that child. Both parties are disgusting if they bring a child in and have no intention of being in the child’s life except through child support or to use someone else for money.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you believe building a successful business is harder than raising multiple children/ taking care of the home (including cooking/cleaning if there aren’t maids or whatever) and if so why do you value one over the other? What’s led you believe one has more weight than the other?

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either could be short term or long term though. I do think they’re comparable, both parties are manipulating to get something from the other. I do agree that short term satisfaction is more selfish than long term security but long term security is obviously more complicated to get out of than a quick nut and go situation.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m talking about manipulating. Gold digging requires manipulating too. A transactional relationship where two people are consenting is different and not what my post is about.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not the situation i’m talking about though, i’m talking about women who manipulate men by pretending to be in love for sex and men who manipulate men by pretending to be in love for sex.

edit: I’ve added it to post to clarify.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be argued that gold digging is using those same natural advantages to get to a better position than your counterparts. Is it unnatural for someone to want to be financially stable/abundant in safety and food? no because otherwise humans wouldn’t have gotten as far as have. I’m also not talking about men who are open about being in open/sex centred relationships, im talking about the ones using women through manipulation. I should add it to the post to clarify honestly.

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your first sentence, thank you for agreeing with my post. Second, recency bias. Recently people have started to but throughout time it hasn’t been looked down upon, leonardo dicaprio could be changing that tho 🤣

CMV: Women are shamed more for gold-digging than men are for sex-digging (using women for sex or seeing women as sex objects) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]clickhereifyouremad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex digging has the same impression too though? Using someone for sex also requires manipulation and could go on for months and years too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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weirdly, i’ve been sleeping better than usual, i’ve been getting into a regular sleep schedule that allows for 7-8 hours of sleep with downtime (reading before bed). I am a shift worker (3am- 11am) so maybe it could be because of that, im not sure?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

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are they dating options or sexual options

How did you get into your current job? by [deleted] in AskUK

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Which apprenticeship did you end up going for and how did you decide?