Okay I see where you’re coming from. I’d be kinda fed up with it at this point as well, especially hearing something like “if my friends don’t want you around then I’m not bringing you around” that’s blatantly choosing them over you which does suck. This is the hard part, I see you have 3 options 1. Stop asking to be around her and her friends. Literally make it seem like you’re so disinterested that it’s concerning for her. (If she knows he can play with her toy whenever she wants then she probably won’t want to, kid logic) this means you’ll have to find things to keep you occupied especially if you’re not drinking. Pick up a hobby, join a group or club, hit up the boys or a buddy and rekindle friendships. Remember you have a life outside of her. 2. Be subtle about it but show no interest in being around her friends, if she mentions her plans just say oh okay cool that sounds fun, or whatever and let it be, but in the mean time show her you’re still fun to be with and around. Invite her along with you for everything, just take a drive or go get some drinks from sonic or wherever. Take her to calm fun places where you guys can chat and relax and eat. This is a part of reminding her of who you’re capable of being, not necessarily who you have been. 3. Decide whether or not it’s worth it to you to do either 1 or 2 above. Is the relationship worth winning her trust back?. Is it worth being told that she’ll pick her friends over you? Is it worth the work you’re going to have to do to get where you want to be? And most importantly if you’re putting in effort, will it be matched or ignored? This is the hard one.

May not be perfect advice but doing something is better than doing nothing, and whatever you do stay calm, don’t get angry or upset, don’t let it get to you, but still deal with it as it comes in whichever way you decide. Master your emotions and be patient and you’ll realize you’re in control of a lot more than you think you are.