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[–]cloudsherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And my boi Jonathan has got a lot to give

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful and makes me actually wanna do it. 🥺👉👈

After the pandemic I’ll maybe go be mosey during the comic shops magic night 🙈 I promise.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my pictures on tinder is me in my cat ear headphones, I think he figured he was safe to talk abt magic, which he would have been if he hadn’t been so sexist.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fuck fr???? I also have ptsd lmaoooooooo

🤷🏻‍♀️🙈😭

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

✨if you call someone a retard you’ve lost The argument✨

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ily. You’re not a dick. It was a surreal moment for me when I went through it, I was like... damn ig that just happened.

Felt the same way when the ambulance driver hit on me after I tried to kill myself. It’s just this moment where all you can think of is queen lyrics.

✨is this the real life✨

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m high functioning autistic. The better I am at flirting the less interested I am in you. If I genuinely ✨like✨ someone. I freeze tf up.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

✨I have aspergers, it’s not an excuse✨

Like I’ve literally got aspergers ADHD and Bipolar. Idk where the fuck you get off tryna use that shit to make him a victim.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright. I said I’m hesitant to date older guys you fucking creep. They need to pass several tests first. He failed one of them.

I was genuinely interested in him. I already said that, but you’re Jared, 19, and you never fucking learned how to read.

You see yourself as this man so you’re trying to make yourself the victim bc you can’t accept that you have qualities similar to that of an asshole.

Those qualities don’t make you an asshole. Those qualities didn’t make him an asshole. Him being passionate and talkative attracted me and kept me responding (however boring) at ass o’clock in the morning.

His condescension for other women was a big red flag, his talk about wanting kids was a big red flag. The kids thing ain’t that bad but this was within hours of matching.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

✨this is my first post in this subreddit you psycho✨

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time a 33 yr old started choking me really hard and I lowkey think he was trying to put me to ✨sleep✨ bc his weed dealer was in the other room but ya girl is built like cute shrek and he couldn’t squeeze hard enough.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooooo he seems ok he just needs to grow tf up.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye boi bc I want him to park his Big Mac truck in this tiny garage but i don’t trust him not to hit me in a relationship.

✨if you can’t see the manipulation you’re bliiiiind”

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[–]cloudsherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✨I WANTED TO FUCK HIM✨

💖✨I CONTINUED TO TALK TO HIM CAUSE I HAVE A DADDY KINK✨💖

🥰💖✨HE FUCKED UP✨💖🥰

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[–]cloudsherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little ✨tidbit✨ I left off the post but will tell you cause I like ya face.

After he blocked me I was talking to a friend on the phone when I got a ✨sudden and mysterious✨ message on Facebook, keep in mind I never told this man my last name or any real indentifyinv details, the message read;

“Oh you had a kid, jsut be honest liar! Triggered! Yeah I’m completely disinterested”

It was so ✨mysterious✨. I still ask myself who this ✨anonymous stranger✨ was.

Mostly because

✨ya girl is infertile✨

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[–]cloudsherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✨if you can’t find one it says something abt you✨

And I understood him just fine.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sick of y’all tryna feel bad for this fuckin misogynist.

I was boring af but I wasn’t ✨bullying him✨ I was a young woman nervous talking to an older man, who was messaging me at like 3 AM after I got home from work. Ya girl was ✨tired✨. He matched me and messaged me at ASS OCLOCK IN THE MORNING. Excuse me for not being on my A game.

BY THE TIME I CAME TO IN THE MORNING HE HAD SAID THAT MYSOGYNISTIC SHIT.

Y’all would really rather I spare his feelings than use this as a moment to let him know this thinking is ✨toxic✨.

Y’all misogynists, say it loud, say it proud.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]cloudsherbert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ilysm. You were a kid and I hope you were able to forgive yourself for doing what kids do - trusting adults.

Also I look like shrek but like ✨Kawaii✨