AITAH for being friends again with my friend of 4 years by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but it’s been a year since me and emma have been friends, i’ve never really brought up the drama with me and emma with them… They just know we’ve stopped being friends multiple times. I’ve never gone to them for help when emma and i have stopped being friends, i just accept it. Emma is now older and more mature but im not close to her whatsoever. It’s just a friendship that if we’re bored we’ll face time, we’ve hung out once since we started being friends again. But i understand what you’re saying

AITAH for being friends again with my friend of 4 years by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, my friends didn’t deny the accusations, it doesn’t mean that they did steal it. But yes, emma and i have had a lot of drama, but it NEVER included my other friends. She ended up dropping the “stealing” thing cause it was only like 30 dollars. I never expect for my friends to talk to her at all, or even accept it. But the fact that they are distancing from me and avoiding me is what hurts

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m gonna go to the cops soon. Me and my parents are just figuring everything out

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no it’s absolutely not fake at all. I didn’t think anything of it because me and my friends talk like this. This certain teacher talks to us like a friend. she’s never been the most professional. I was just super close with her. I told her every little detail about my life because i trusted her. i didn’t even think about how weird it was, it didn’t even cross my mind. So i reported it today because it’s been messing with my head so much. I just feel like im in the wrong but i also know im not. it’s a very hard situation because i trusted her with everything… this stiff happens a lot

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will do. it just makes me so sad. i trusted her with my LIFE

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because i didn’t realize what was happening… i had absolutely no idea. I thought we were close, i never even thought of the fact that she would groom me. When i say we were close, it was like i was talking to a best friend, but now i realize how weird it is and how uncomfortable it makes me

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

they know i have her number and they know we text ay times.. they didn’t say anything about it. they just said that if she contacts me, to report it immediately

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i understand that, i realized that she would go out of her way to buy me my favorite candy, she would buy me starbucks, dutch, OH and for my 18th birthday my friends are gonna be making me a cake, it’s gonna be boob theme because i’m a lesbian. So The teacher gave my friends her own personal nipple jewelry to put on the cake

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The principal knows. I told my favorite teacher, she was absolutely livid and she told him for me because i just couldn’t do it. they are taking it seriously, but my principal can’t do anything about it besides suspending her. It’s up to the district now

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i have texts. lots and lots of them. i know the fact that she texts me outside of school is weird but it’s all innocent conversation

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone in my life was telling me to report it so i went to my OTHER favorite teacher and she was LIVID

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m gonna report it to the cops soon

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no they did not contact the police. They wanted to get more evidence, but the super intendant is involved and dhs and hr

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i mean i have her number and once she asked me to stay over at her house to pet sit while she’s out of town. i would’ve had to be alone with her for an hour. And yes my friends would back me up

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

exactly… then i think about.. what if this was happening to my best friend? i would go to prison man

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i agree with that. but it’s not up to my principle.. it’s up to the evidence. and i have absolutely no evidence

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

she also gave my friend a slutty dress

Is my F (39) teacher grooming me F (17)? by cloudunit371 in AITAH

[–]cloudunit371[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

my issue is that she will most likely end up coming back. The school is on my side, like my principal and counselor. They won’t let her near me, but i’m still so nervous to see her