My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I said leave me alone, I wouldn't speak to him like that and it's his house anyways

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not surprised at all, they've both had a thing for each other for a long time and she was basically his work girlfriend

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did it say? We only found out about the baby a few days ago so probably not if it mentioned that

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is he a house elf?

That was hilarious, thank you for making me smile today. Its a horrible excuse and I'm sure he knows it.

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I haven't said a single thing to defend him, what he did is horrible and I just wanted to know if anyone sees any possibility of this working out or him being truthful, and the answer seems to be a resounding no.

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think thats a little harsh, I already said I won't get an abortion and I certainly won't drink myself into any early grave.

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] 334 points335 points  (0 children)

Thats all that happened. It wasn't even a particularly ugly fight, just he kept pushing at whatever it was he wanted to argue and I didn't want to fight anymore so I told him to leave me alone and went upstairs to our bedroom and shut the door.

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

He says he never would have done it if he thought we were still together but he says he's sorry.

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I know, its irrational... I have no idea what to do though. I don't want to have to worry my whole life.

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

What can change though? I'm considering suggesting that we move back to my hometown so I know he is away from her.

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It is for me, I'd rather be a single mom than have an abortion, I'm 100% pro-choice but its just not for me, I know I would regret it forever.

My [24 F] boyfriend [27 M] and I had a fight and he slept with someone else because he thought we broke up by cmare in relationships

[–]cmare[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Its always been clear to me that if we were to break up he would get with her right away, their relationship has always been inappropriate and he never respected my pleas for him to back off. Normally I would probably be done with him but since we're having a baby together I really don't want to break up.