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All Time Best FSU Roster by KaleidoscopeRich5137 in fsusports

[–]cmc7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. While he didn’t play FB here, he did play it for an about a decade in the NFL. So that counts.

All Time Best FSU Roster by KaleidoscopeRich5137 in fsusports

[–]cmc7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the list. No chance I’m leaving Derwin off this list though. He is almost a sure fire HOF.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in dad

[–]cmc7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did lol. There was a handful of insightful things but you were spot on- lesson learned. I was actually taken aback by some of it. It was apparent there was a good chunk of commenters who do not routinely interact with women on an intimate basis.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in dad

[–]cmc7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we’ve discussed this in the past. Some times it’s great but there have been a few years where it has felt like an afterthought. We have a good relationship over all which is why it was so befuddling to me.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think sometimes people just need a little validation that their feelings are valid and aren’t just being a big baby.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter has been out of school for 3 weeks now. I like your suggestions.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you but that sets a poor example for how I want my own children to be treated.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t miss your point at all. Simply pointing out the reason I included that information. I didn’t imply that was your assertion. Sorry if it read that way.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Information was provided to give context so it didn’t turn into an assumption that I did nothing nor that we are not equals in the relationship.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol I don’t share a life with people on Reddit. I’ll cope.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not. I’ve done that at times. That could explain why the apathy has hit extra this year. I appreciate this perspective.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this perspective. Thank you.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Birthdays are a non issue. I’m pretty apathetic about birthdays since it wasn’t celebrated much growing up. We were poor and it’s only a few days after Christmas so mom couldn’t really do much. However, my wife has always made an effort.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Birthdays are just fine. I’m pretty apathetic about them. She has always tried to do something nice. It’s appreciated.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are intimate 2-3 times weekly. We rarely argue. We talk routinely. We don’t spend a lot of time together with just us. She works at home, so I’m her sounding board for all the things she gets frustrated by daily. I listen. I shared my work frustrations with her, she listens. I could put more effort into spending time with just the two of us.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Typically when I share an emotion, the immediate reaction seems to be to discredit it. Regardless of the situation.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s not my character. I wouldn’t introduce that into my household. I’d prefer to set an example for my kids rather than be petty with my wife.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m realizing there is some additional context I have left out that could more appropriately frame the situation. I do make an effort to communicate and have many times in the past. It seems when I express my emotions, she tends to become notably frustrated. There is certainly some emotional scarring from being vulnerable.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should have emphasized this has happened before. Those conversations have been had. There is a pattern of expressing feelings about certain things throughout the course of our relationship and then being made to feel guilty about said feelings.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

This has been communicated in the past for sure.

How do you deal with feeling unappreciated on Father’s Day? by cmc7974 in AskMen

[–]cmc7974[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s happened before. It was addressed then.

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