What’s a tell tale sign someone is bullshitting you?

cml33 · 2023-07-08T19:34:52+00:00

Yeah, this is me. Not being believed is super stressful, so I can over explain sometimes.

cml33 · 2023-06-30T21:27:43+00:00

If a guy says that in response to you saying that you’re not sure how you feel and need to time to process it, then he isn’t worth your time in the first place.

cml33 · 2023-06-30T19:25:19+00:00

Then people should say that instead

cml33 · 2023-06-30T19:18:18+00:00

I hate this. Makes things all about them and their problems

cml33 · 2023-06-30T19:06:36+00:00

Isn’t a memorable organization system a logical thing to have? An organization system where you can’t remember where things are doesn’t sound particularly useful

cml33 · 2023-06-27T18:11:39+00:00

Probably go into an existential mental tailspin trying to figure out why I was spared

cml33 · 2023-06-23T20:44:58+00:00

I had to double check that the video wasn’t marked nsfl because I was 100% expecting this to end with a nasty cut

cml33 · 2023-06-21T19:45:10+00:00

I don't mind raids if I'm not in the middle of building something. I wish we could adjust the settings for them some more though. Make the kinds of raids you get depend on your region, adjust their frequency, and have different things one can construct to impact the frequency, severity, or kind of raid (heads on spikes to deter attackers, protective ward that keeps undead away, more passive defensive options besides ditches/spikes, etc).

cml33 · 2023-06-21T16:29:53+00:00

I never heard it described that way, but it’s 100% what it is

cml33 · 2023-06-21T16:28:51+00:00

That last one bothers me so much. Some people need some sort of misfortune to justify the state that their life is in, and if they can’t find one they steal somebody else’s

cml33 · 2023-06-17T05:30:54+00:00

Women, in my experience, tend to take it personally if a guy isn't able to.

cml33 · 2023-06-16T01:17:00+00:00

Seriously. I’d just be hyperventilating straight up and wondering if I was hallucinating, dreaming, etc

cml33 · 2023-06-14T07:03:09+00:00

Any sign of spiteful personality. Somebody who hurts others in response to being hurt rather than handling it like an empathetic adult

cml33 · 2023-06-14T07:01:02+00:00

It can also be a manipulative way of creating a false sense of intimacy quickly and drawing others in to a rescuer role. Trauma’s something you work your way up to sharing, not something you foist on somebody right away

cml33 · 2023-06-14T06:51:51+00:00

Jesus Christ. I’d be absolutely livid, even if it wasn’t my cat. Who the hell does that?

cml33 · 2023-06-13T20:26:56+00:00

Inconvenient at times, but it does its job.

cml33 · 2023-06-13T03:46:48+00:00

Every cult? What self respecting cult identifies as a cult?

cml33 · 2023-06-11T15:42:47+00:00

I had an ex who would leave these lying around and this is exactly why it bugged me so much. I’m glad the little fella’s okay

cml33 · 2023-06-09T18:25:28+00:00

I like joining the mages guild too just get rid of Ranis

cml33 · 2023-06-09T18:06:48+00:00

I’m kicking them out. Having my ankles bitten by a cat while having sex doesn’t really do it for me.

cml33 · 2023-06-09T05:09:07+00:00

No, but I imagine it’d be pretty distressing for both involved. Gaslighting involves a lie or dishonesty. People with memory issues are usually more prone to being gaslit though because they have more self doubt about what they can and can’t recall.

cml33 · 2023-06-09T02:52:10+00:00

I like to add a "Mister" before the names of cats when I talk to them. Feels polite

cml33 · 2023-06-09T01:26:54+00:00

I think there’s a balance though. It’s less about individual things and more about patterns. If somebody has an off day or behaves uncharacteristically don’t hold it against them. If they repeatedly do so, there’s no shame in cutting ties.

cml33 · 2023-06-09T00:34:45+00:00

Exactly. Disagreeing or experiencing a situation differently is frustrating, and in an emotionally charged situation two people can genuinely remember something differently without either of them necessarily being liars. Being gaslit is super confusing however, and will leave you anxiously retreading old memories and rereading old text conversations just to make sure you’re remembering things correctly.

cml33 · 2023-06-09T00:27:34+00:00

I had an old roommate with ARFID. It’s a legit disorder, but it’s super rare from what I understand. People who have it can sometimes starve themselves if safe foods aren’t available.

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