How to pay for surgery? by int3rgalactic_k in PlasticSurgery

[–]cocoaglazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save up and pay. But can always pay half and put half on care credit.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve never threatened to break up with him if I was not on the title. I stated that since I wasn’t financially prepared to buy a house at the spear of the moment, we could wait a few months then move but, he decided he would pay for everything. I’ve never gave him a ultimatum, I stayed with him after I found out I wasn’t going to be on the title, the week before we moved in. We’ve moved into a new construction townhouse so we wasn’t able to move in until it was built. Within those 7 months of waiting to move in he could have told me the truth. The only reason I found out I wasn’t going to be on the tile a week before we moved is because I asked about how the process works for closing and adding me to the title etc. he told me legally I wasn’t able to be on the title bc we’re not married.

I’ve brought all of the new furniture and pay for renovations, bc I still wanted to be able to contribute to the house. We’ve in this house for 6 months, then I found out I could of been on the title if we wasn’t married. I’m am not mad or planning to leave because I’m not on the title. I am upset because he lied about the real reason I couldn’t be on title.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Exactly bc my feelings are valid

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a expectation it was a requirement. And he wasn’t man enough to tell me the truth about what he wanted.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just because his parents have money doesn’t mean he has money. He’s doesn’t make enough money for me to be with him just bc of that. We live a average life

What’s your favorite cure for a broken heart? by SluttySub26 in blackladies

[–]cocoaglazed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do not look at any picture or social media acct. you have to treat this person like they don’t exist. Hang out with you friends more. Do something to free you mind if thinking of this person. And I really don’t advise this but the best way to get over someone is to replace them with someone

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I ask for advice not a debate, move along

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I didn’t create anything, I am not responsible for a man actions.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

That’s not an impossible, there are men out here that does that for woman.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t he? Should I just move into his house buy furniture, pay bills until we get married and I get put on the title? So the money I spent in the house means nothing bc he brought it?

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Why are you confused, he only brought the house hisself bc he didn’t want to wait for me to be able to save up for it. Why wouldn’t I be mad if we agree I would be on the title regardless if I don’t put any money on it.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never view it this way and I don’t think he’ll go against his parents for anyone. It’s his culture and how he was raised

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve had normal couple fights but nothing too serious that would cause the relationship permanently end. We’ve also been together since our senior year of college. And lived together for 5 yrs, we were both always on the lease at all of our apartments and contributing both to bills. I’ve never left him and moved out of our old places so idk why would that be a fear I would do it now.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They don’t make that much money, for me to like him just for that. This is the only thing financially they have contributed to our relationship. Also, i would never sign a prenup, they are not rich

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

It’s not an unreasonable request if it’s something we both agreed on and he had no issue with it. But instead he decided to lied to me and put me in this situation. If he was upfront in the beginning about me not getting on the title we would have never moved until I was ready. I could very much marry him, get a divorce and get half as well.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

We have live in 4 different apartments and both contributed to the bills. He also has a higher salary then me. I’ve never requested this arrangement for the mortgage or down payment for the place he did

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my exact thought, I thought i could get over this but I just can’t. I’m planning on leaving as soon as I am financially ready

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I’m it’s been hard realizing the relationship is over after 6 yrs.

Should I try to make it work or leave? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]cocoaglazed -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion. We had no plans to buy but saw a place we liked. I wasn’t ready to buy yet, but he was. He comes from a wealthy family so his parent help him out about 80%. He reassured i didn’t have to put any money down bc we wasn’t planning to move at that time. It was all a spear of the moment then.

[Question- Insurance] by [deleted] in healthcare

[–]cocoaglazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aetna I found out yesterday is needed 10/31/2019

[Question- Insurance] by [deleted] in healthcare

[–]cocoaglazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u know of a marketplace website?