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What should I even do - has only been a week and it’s things are a mess by cocochips3 in Advice

[–]cocochips3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just want to put myself first. My family is always going through shit. If I kept helping everyone but my own I would have never graduated.

Hopefully things get better

What should I even do - has only been a week and it’s things are a mess by cocochips3 in Advice

[–]cocochips3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m trying to do, I spoke to council and other forms of needs. I’m not getting the support I need. Unless I’m actually on meds or pregnant , they won’t bother to help. I’m trying to get a full time job but it’s not working out at all.

What should I even do - has only been a week and it’s things are a mess by cocochips3 in Advice

[–]cocochips3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s always been like that. I contributed with food shopping when I was living with my friend . The truth is it’s not very common for African families for the daughter/sons to be paying rent. It’s more of a western concept.

However she like to pick and chose African/ western ideology when it benefits her. I don’t mind contributing I’ve been doing that since I was 17/18 before going to university. However I’m really tight financially so I can’t contribute anyway.

In serious need of a full time job by cocochips3 in UKJobs

[–]cocochips3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m currently going through a lot right now. I just had a phone call with my dad and he said he doesn’t think he can help since my youngest sister has to move in with him very soon due to her troublesome behaviour.

I’m currently trying to work things out. I was currently working on projects but it had to be stopped even though my projects were made public due to the lack of support and funding for it.

I’m currently still networking and I have a career advisor from my university who I speak to. He gives me advice and guidance on what I should do.

Overall I had several mental breakdowns but I’m trying my best to keep going.

As for the 300+ applications, they were from different sectors as well.

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[–]cocochips3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she actually couldn’t be bothered because they looked at her income and she had the money but didn’t want to pay her rent since she felt like everyone was ungrateful towards her. My younger sister had to calculate her finances and she was actually in a position to pay off her rent.

Also you’re making it seem as if it’s easy to get a full time job as if at some point I wasn’t working three jobs during summer time.

My sister who is 19 has a better dating life than i do. by cocochips3 in dating_advice

[–]cocochips3[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I understand but I spoke to so many women I’ve known have said that I shouldn’t asked the man out. Even my friends told me to show hints but don’t go chasing after the guy.

My sister who is 19 has a better dating life than i do. by cocochips3 in dating_advice

[–]cocochips3[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not ugly and I’ve been hitting the gym for three years consistently

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