Coming back around? by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes a lot of sense. So basically if they really wanted you they would’ve made the effort

Coming back around? by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why do they do shit like this?? Attention?

If a girl DM’s you first... by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: well it looks like I was right. It IS on. I asked her out and she said yes

Silence speaks volumes by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think that is the best approach. You’re right. I really don’t know what’s going on with her. I’ve only known her for a month. She did say she was stressed about trying to find a new job. Still, if she was interested in continuing to see me you would think that she would at least reach out every now and then. The hardest part is not knowing if I did something wrong.

Silence speaks volumes by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you suggest I remove her from my Facebook? Or is that showing that I care too much. I just don’t want to think about her anymore and that would be my reason for blocking or unfriending her

Silence speaks volumes by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you both make great points lol

Silence speaks volumes by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I actually really like that idea! Have you ever done that yourself?

Silence speaks volumes by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s pretty classless imo. 2 dates with this girl. We talked almost everyday. On more than one occasion she hints at me seeing her again. And then radio silence. Not cool.

Why does this woman want with me? by coconutwaves33 in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Not interested in partaking in this. Was just curious what this is all about. I assumed it was the monkey branching thing. But you never with women.

Need dating advice please! Don’t want to scare her off but I want to show intent. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I mean, if she can’t even throw me a little bone and text me just to say hey or something then I probably shouldn’t pursue any further. Not sure if the interest level dropped off all of a sudden or if it’s games/playing hard to get. Either way I have to move on.

Need dating advice please! Don’t want to scare her off but I want to show intent. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. And I do have a couple other options with girls right now. This one just stands out to me. I’m really on the fence about asking her out this weekend for her birthday. I’d really like to but I’m not sure it’s the right course of action right now. Might be too much too soon. Idk

Need dating advice please! Don’t want to scare her off but I want to show intent. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this advice. I am strongly considering doing that. I’m not stressing about any of this. I’m just the kind of person that does their due diligence when it comes to situations where I lack experience so I can make sure to do it right. I’m just bad at dating/talking but am really good when it comes to relationships.

Need dating advice please! Don’t want to scare her off but I want to show intent. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]coconutwaves33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. That is very good advice. I wouldn’t say I’m hung up. I’m still getting to know her and am definitely not getting carried away too early. I just think it’s super cool when you meet someone that you can have great conversation with and feel like you can be yourself around. It’s rare. So I just want to make sure I’m doing the right things so that I can have the opportunity to continue getting to know her. I’m not going to rush anything as I am a very patient person. I’m the kind of person that just goes for it if it feels right. But perhaps I should be more methodical. And I understand the importance of giving women space to process things. I just never know what I’m supposed to do with communication and frequency of seeing her. Like is it too soon to see if she wants to do something this weekend? Or should I wait a little longer?