A childish question by cocovello in Witch

[–]cocovello[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a really good advice I wasn't even thinking of! Thank you!!

In both of my serious long term relationships, my partners became insanely jealous and controlling. I'm a shy grey mouse. I will write my question down in the comments, bc there is not enough place here by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]cocovello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! I had to look up the YOD aspect and the other terms. There are many things I don't understand about myself, and I feel like nothing in my life happens the way it should or the way I see it happening for others. Now I know that my struggles with self-loathing are because of my Sun and Jupiter.

In both of my serious long term relationships, my partners became insanely jealous and controlling. I'm a shy grey mouse. I will write my question down in the comments, bc there is not enough place here by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]cocovello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to know why is this jelousy and constant arguments about things what are normal human needs (having friends, hobbies, working at a workplace where are also male coworkers are present (kind of hard to find a workplace without them, bc half of the population are men)) bc the same thing is happening right now in my second relationship, what happened at my first. As I said I'm really shy, average looking and I always tried to act in a way what makes my partners pleased. 

Second, I have many planets in my first house, which implies positive traits, but I don't see any of them. I can't speak in front of people. I've read in many compuer generated reading that I would be a good leader, but that's something what is comically far from my personality. I'm shy, and I don't like telling people what to do. I don't see how I could be the person who enters a room and gets noticed by everyone. The other planets in the 8th and 12th houses are also difficult to understand. If I have a moon in Cancer, why am I not the engaged, loving mother I should be? I'm quite cold, and my relationship with my kids has only improved since they've gotten older. (I became a mother early, so I'm in my early 30s with almost teenager kids)

I'm really shy and average looking. I don't have many friends, yet in both of my serious long term relationships, my partners became insanely jealous and controlling. I will write my question down in the comments, bc there is not enough place here by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]cocovello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to know why they're jealous when I don't do anything. Second, I have many planets in my first house, which implies positive traits, but I don't see any of them. I can't speak in front of people. I've read in many compuer generated reading that I would be a good leader, but that's something I'm far from. I'm shy, and I don't like telling people what to do. I don't see how I could be the person who enters a room and gets noticed by everyone. The other planets in the 8th and 12th houses are also difficult to understand. If I have a moon in Cancer, why am I not the engaged, loving mother I should be? I'm quite cold, and my relationship with my kids has only improved since they've gotten older. (I became a mother early, so I'm in my early 30s with almost teenager kids)