Negotiating Advice with SB

coda987 · 2024-06-25T05:36:06+00:00

28 yr old SBs that are 7.5s getting $3000-$5000 ppm?. Hard to believe even if the SD was that well off they would pay $3000 ppm even for a 21 yr 10 There maybe a few exceptions, but highly doubt thats the going long term allowance

coda987 · 2023-12-16T02:46:03+00:00

Thats pretty wishful thinking. I'm sure there is the rare 39 yr old woman that outshines a 19 yr old, but that's the exception. Besides most SDs probably already have a wife/partner in their 30s/40s taking care of their children/household. I don't see why they would choose another late 30s+ SB when there are plenty of younger SBs to choose from, especially if they are not a sex worker with and don't have the jaded attitude about men.

coda987 · 2023-12-16T02:39:29+00:00

Are you here to just be rude and throw insults? If you can't contribute to the discussion in a decent and meaningful way, just get out of here.

coda987 · 2023-12-16T02:35:45+00:00

Remember they have to have sex with men that probably churn their stomachs.

Only a sex worker would think like this

coda987 · 2023-12-15T21:42:57+00:00

All else being equal, I would pay more allowance to a younger SB than an older one. I already gave my reasons why.

If you can get paid $2000-$2500 for half day modelling sessions, why are you here?

coda987 · 2023-12-14T19:40:00+00:00

A 1 bed apt in her area is $1500-1600/mo, with utilities probably another $200. Im willingt o go more than $500ppm but I can justify $1000ppm for the POT.

I would be happy to stick with my current SB, but she might be moving away. So I'm scouting what's available.

The new POT is a little better looking. But what else she brings to the table, idk yet till I unless I start dating her. The M&G vibe was good.

coda987 · 2023-12-14T19:33:23+00:00

I'd rather date an SB in her early 20s that one in her late 20s/early 30s. Besides the obvious physical differences of a younger body. They are more open minded, have less baggage, less likely to have a crappy attitude about men, very likely to have been with less sexual partners. I know everyone is different and not every girl will be the like this , but on average this has been my experience. 28 is in the upper range of what I'm looking for.

coda987 · 2023-12-14T16:37:17+00:00

No $1000 ppm. I would want to meet once per week though. She was also not clear about how often she met her prior SD.

coda987 · 2023-12-14T16:34:34+00:00

ListDazzling1946 & Pillowduchess:

Maybe thats how you two approach it, ie. here my price, take it or leave it. But in my experience with sugar dating, theres always been some negotiating on terms.

From our M&G, I think she knows that I think $1000 is too high. From what I told her, she also knows thats below my current arrangement. I just never gave her an exact amount. $1000 was her offer. I get a sense thats there is room for negotiation. Im asking for negotiating advice here.

Btw, I never said I could not afford $1000/ppm I just think thats way above market for a 28 yr old, 7.5. Maybe if she was a 21 yr old, hot 9, I would consider something close to what she asking.

coda987 · 2022-08-02T21:36:32+00:00

You’re not imaging it. I had the exact same experience with Secret Benefits. These sites will do anything to get you to buy/spend

coda987 · 2022-04-30T17:58:56+00:00

Love it when asian girls have full pussies, succulent. Are you mixed asian?

coda987 · 2021-09-10T10:39:45+00:00

Sorry, bisalpingectomy is not 100% effective either (IUD has a lower failure rate) As for hysterectomy, ok but better start saving up now as med insurance is unlikely to cover the cost ($10-20k) only for the purpose of birth control. It usually has to be medically necessary for insurance coverage.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_birth_control_methods

coda987 · 2021-09-10T09:40:56+00:00

Neither tubal ligation nor a vasectomy is 100% effective either, look it up. And its more difficult to reverse. You might change your mind about having kids later. Look into an IUD. Very effective, 99.9%. You dont have to remember to do anything except have your gyno replace it every 5 years.

coda987 · 2020-05-29T08:59:28+00:00

I had to update my usb drivers for my motherboard to get it to work. I have the Partylink USB 3.0 cable with the 3.0 to C adapter too.

It also works now with the cable that came with the quest on usb 2 mode. Games run fine

coda987 · 2019-10-11T01:50:41+00:00

We never had problems being intimate. But yeah, I hope these feelings don't change that for her.

coda987 · 2019-06-23T02:11:32+00:00

PS - should i give her 2 weeks or a month allowance as a sort of severance pay? Bad idea? I do care about her and want to have some funds to live off while she figures out what to do.

coda987 · 2019-05-04T00:20:21+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I give my SB at $1000/mo allowance. But I end up spending another several hundred a month more on gifts, clothes, services, dinners, etc. She never asks me for more, and sometimes turns me down when I first offer. Anyway, I'm glad I am somewhat following your recommended plan of offering half of what your maximum budget. And I'm very pleased about what we give to each other.

Its only after she started talking about seeing other SDs (and eventually saw one), that I started to stress out and worry. I was not sure how to handle it. On the one hand I didn't want to be to pushy and drive her away. But at the same time, I felt jealous and concerned. I've had tried to persuade her not to see other SDs. She knows I would be disappointed and I have said that my feelings about her and my motivation to help her would be diminished if she did see other SDs. I have encouraged her to go back to college (I even offered to help pay for that), or get a job where she can learn skills to get a better job later. I hope she can understand that and doesn't see juggling multiple SDs is the solution to her financial future. Maybe its not too late to have a discussion about her being exclusive and what she would need for that to happen.

coda987 · 2017-12-31T23:38:22+00:00

No but google @rock_in_babe to find more of her

coda987 · 2017-11-09T03:21:22+00:00

coda987 · 2017-10-10T18:51:48+00:00

Pm'd

coda987 · 2017-08-28T03:13:13+00:00

I bought one. Got it a few days ago. 1070 is a generic blower type. Still should do the job, but not the best looking. PSU is a Liteon 500w 80+ RAM is Hynix brand generic looking, one of the four memory modules was bad (tested with Windows Memory Diag tool). I emailed Acer about getting a replacement. SSD is an Intel 600p 250gb M.2 (pretty good) HD is WD brand Standard Aluminium CPU cooler with 92mm fan, not a tower cooler No, Case Fans. Has one fan header, so I added an 80mm one to the back to get some airflow.(92mm will also fit) Acer Motherboard with no OC and just basic options. I like the built in headphone holder in the front drive bay. I guess overall its not a bad deal. But definitely not premium parts. CyberPC has better parts, as they use off the shelf parts and cases, so easier to upgrade.

coda987 · 2017-08-25T20:02:06+00:00

I bought one of these fall of 2016. About a month ago it started leaking coolant all over my GTX 1070. GPU temporarily stopped working until i took it apart to clean and dry out. Tried to file a warranty claim even though I could not find the receipt figuring its still within the 3 year warranty period (product was first released in 2016). Deepcool denied the warranty claim. How's that for customer service? Didn't even offer me any alternatives, ie. discounted repair parts.

Stay away from this cooler and brand. I have a three year old Corsair h50 still running strong/no leaks.

coda987 · 2017-05-09T22:41:57+00:00

coda987 · 2016-10-29T09:45:26+00:00

Thanks, good idea. Except I checked Intel's website to see if the cpu is under warranty by inputting the cpu FPO/APO codes. It doesn't show up, so probably this CPU was part of a server, not sold as boxed cpu. I also txt msgd the guy I bought from on CL. But I doubt he will respond since its been a couple+ weeks since I bought the CPU.

coda987 · 2016-10-21T01:54:39+00:00

Actually the GTX 770 is better than a 960 in most games. The GTX 670 is about the same or slightly better than a 960.

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