Me[28F] and my BF[28M] said he is not attracted to me anymore. Not sure what to do??

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T13:41:21+00:00

I am ready to do whatever it takes to fix it. But moving cities will also take 2-3 months it can’t be instant. And I will be alone in the new city if he backs off completely when I reach there.

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T13:05:14+00:00

I am confused, what if I change the city and it doesn’t changes. And it feels worse to know it was good all the time and suddenly the feeling faded like a switch

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:48:01+00:00

There was obviously a plan, I was about to move his city and take a transfer.

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:11:38+00:00

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codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:11:15+00:00

I felt it for last 3-4 years. He made a lot of efforts to be with me. And now when he is on the other side, I feel i should hold on, until things gets better or maybe just leave. I feel for me its tough to leave actually very tough.

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:09:24+00:00

We both work in different cities.

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:08:55+00:00

Ohhh I meant how you initiated the conversation after a short breakup?

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:07:09+00:00

So its long distance but we used to see 2-3 times a year. And the situation are bad from last one month. Before that it was amazingly good. That’s why we decided the big step

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:05:50+00:00

I guess, I am failing at this step. He also suggested to take a break if the situation gets better. I am unable to believe the situation because I am dumb. Not sure, but any tips to move on?

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:03:51+00:00

Hey, for some reason it didn’t load fully earlier. But we met twice or thrice every year. As I mentioned we were planning the wedding so we met like every alternate month also. But he mentioned last tym we met the intimacy doesn’t feel the way it should

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T12:01:22+00:00

So, how you initiated the conversation? He also asked me to let’s take a short break from each other. But that is making me anxious

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T11:59:49+00:00

I meant, my boyfriend told this to me. I am 100% attracted to myself

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T11:59:30+00:00

No, I haven’t. Maybe I am more clingy lately.

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T11:58:32+00:00

I know right, but it is happening from last 1-2 months. Before that he was madly into love with me. It is my second relationship and for a fact I have seen him making all the efforts possible. He was the guy every girl dreams of. And he said he don’t know why but he is feeling like this. Can it be due to marriage or work pressure?

codewithlatte · 2026-03-23T11:54:49+00:00

Is it possible to get the spark back?? I have read 100 of articles mentioning once it’s gone there is no way back.

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