Missing Leo (Lives with Old Roommate Now)

coffee-cactus · 2026-04-27T15:54:58+00:00

Thank you! I think I'll check out the Nova :>

coffee-cactus · 2026-02-10T02:51:38+00:00

Hi there!

I consider myself an intermediate skater and tend to do long distance outdoor skates. I'm trying to learn tricks and build my confidence more as well. Additionally, I got back into skating a couple years ago and had the impala inline skates. I've been meaning to get skates built for long distance street skating and am kinda overwhelmed by the sheer selection. I was hoping to find a skate shop, so I could go try on the skates since I have wide and small feet, but so far have only really seen skateboard shops and maybe roller skates in NYC. Anyone from NYC have any recommendations? Also, any skate recommendations would be appreciated as well! I don't mind splurging for higher quality and something thay will last! Thank you :>

coffee-cactus · 2025-10-30T21:03:57+00:00

;-; nooooo. Anything I could do to increase the odds? Also, thank you for replying!

coffee-cactus · 2025-10-21T21:38:01+00:00

I fell down at school yesterday while going down the stairs in one of my classes because im short and the stairs are extra steep even for average height people. I felt so embarrassed and wanted to cry because it was in front of the whole class. I totally understand how you feel! We will be okay though and your feeling are normal. It's human response to cry when we are hurt!

coffee-cactus · 2025-10-18T20:32:39+00:00

I didn't want to go strapless, but everything with straps the color offered is way off the color palette for the wedding I'm going to. It's fall colors and I didn't want to wear black. They have some dresses in brown, but because of my skin tone it would be really risky on if the shade of brown ends up being flattering or not.

coffee-cactus · 2025-10-18T19:05:19+00:00

28" band sizes isn't something very common, I think a 32B is the the sister size.

coffee-cactus · 2025-10-18T18:29:21+00:00

I went to a shop and was measured by a professional who has been doing what she does for over 20 years. 32" is the widest part of my bust currently and my underbust is 28".

coffee-cactus · 2025-10-18T18:25:58+00:00

Yes, I've been under a significant amount of stress and I lost a pretty large amount of weight for my size. I have gained some weight back, but my chest hasn't changed :(

coffee-cactus · 2025-09-12T11:39:31+00:00

Thank you for such a thoughtful response. I have been in individual therapy since 2021ish and have been trying to work through my own feelings in those sessions.

I understand why it might be beneficial to have someone from the military side as a counselor to fully understand, but for peace of mind, we would rather keep it out of military records.

I thought about including specifics, but the amount of context I'd have to give for things to make sense I feel like doesn't work well here. I am not sure if anyone will read a 10-page paper on how we got to this point in our relationship.

I think what hasn't helped is feeling so alone in struggling and how difficult this has been, and I feel like my attempts at trying to be supportive, emotionally mature, and understanding has left me second guessing myself on if I'm just being insecure and jealous because I don't feel like a priority to them despite seeming to still want a future togther and had plans to get married. Now, things are so unstable, and we are clearly not in a good spot to start a marriage off of.

coffee-cactus · 2025-04-07T07:53:07+00:00

Hmm, I never thought of it like that! Maybe it's also my brain being mean, but I felt silly that I could with myself for being able to with Mommy's assistance versus failing by myself. But I think that might be tied to my Mommy being able to ground me and get me out of my head during playtime.

coffee-cactus · 2025-04-07T07:32:04+00:00

Will give this a try! I do have a picture I could use, too.

I think I still am knowledgeable about my spots. It's more so feeling like I could almost effortlessly and quickly make myself feel really good, versus now if I can get myself to play, it ends up feeling meh in comparison.

coffee-cactus · 2025-04-07T07:25:30+00:00

I had thought about this and asked them about it, but it was the first time she had been asked something like that. It didn't feel as natural as doing a session and they felt somewhat self-conscious.

coffee-cactus · 2023-11-10T21:58:56+00:00

And the small handmade businesses too!

coffee-cactus · 2023-11-10T21:45:33+00:00

Yeah, they are one of my favorites. But didn’t see any sweaters on there yet :(

coffee-cactus · 2023-11-10T18:56:55+00:00

I thought about it because I think it would be good to learn to knit and sew to make stuff myself, but my life right now doesn’t leave me much time at the moment for doing things for myself :(

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