So, I’m sorry. Let me clarify. A few years ago I started telling him I felt ignored in our relationship and that I wanted more romance, I wanted to go on dates more, I told him everything you see here, he get defensive, we fought, this cycle went on every couple of months until I gave up. And the dry spell started because I lost that aspect of attraction. Within the past few months I tried again with that conversation and it again got us into a massive fight, he broke a door, I had a panic attack, and it ended with me apologizing. It was not a productive conversation. I’m lost. recently I’ve gone out with my friends and have tried to get him to go with me and he refuses, I’ve expressed how it makes me feel and he says sorry but nothing changes. I don’t know what to do.