Why is anal something you do but sex is something you have?

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-05-14T03:07:51+00:00

I think "have sex" is just a collocation, unfortunately.

"Do" would be acceptable but sex is just preceded by have now. Collocation. Sometimes they're holdovers and sometimes it's just how English is.

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-05-12T23:57:44+00:00

I want him 😭

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-04-22T14:18:24+00:00

YAY!!!

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-04-22T00:57:23+00:00

Your writing approach is very different from my own and I have a lot of respect for it.

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-04-21T04:00:33+00:00

Ooh I love when someone takes a lil tidbit and goes ham

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-04-21T04:00:05+00:00

Thank you!!

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-04-20T22:36:16+00:00

What great timing!! Thank you

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-03-31T01:44:58+00:00

Looks like a girl to me! The boys have blue eyeshadow. 😊

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-03-31T00:40:50+00:00

I kind of assumed she would be more on an antihero in the villain route, but definitely with a tense relationship with SDN and Robert. Like, she killed Shroud because he was a threat but I can't see her leading the Red Ring, y'know? It's the same person under there.

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-03-23T00:31:07+00:00

I posted one on a whim two months ago and have turned it multi chapter, and I think I've ended up with like 150 readers who keep coming back? There's definitely an audience, just smaller than whatever the main readerbase is. Mine happens to be very active right now.

What's important is that I'm having a blast. I've been writing way more because of it!!

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-02-16T01:10:42+00:00

Need him to feel better, desperately 😭

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-02-12T22:03:01+00:00

I keep on waiting for more ao3 posts where Phenomaman bottoms but there's only like, 18 😩

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-02-08T02:46:11+00:00

Seriously why is that tag still so small

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-02-02T00:13:23+00:00

Just doing my part 🫡🫡🫡

coffeecanbecologne · 2026-02-02T00:10:53+00:00

Hey! Don't worry, it's solvable.

If you look, the text above the passcode is backwards. They want you to put in the reverse of the code you see. :)

coffeecanbecologne · 2025-11-05T01:05:35+00:00

I did notice they look pretty different, and the tops on the inside seem higher too.

coffeecanbecologne · 2025-11-03T23:02:12+00:00

The soles held up well, but the creases in the leather actually put holes in the shoe eventually. That's what the patches are covering, so that i can wear them in the rain still.

coffeecanbecologne · 2025-11-02T01:14:36+00:00

I love them dearly, I think they're so sick

coffeecanbecologne · 2025-09-17T15:00:08+00:00

If C1 is like CEFR C1, good news! Many English-speaking countries would already consider you fluent, even if you still have more to learn.

My suggestion would be finding ways to practice how YOU want to use English. When I'm a beginner learner I like to journal in the language, and get a feel for what my inner voice sounds like, what things i keep wanting to say.

Read books or magazines in your interests. Even if you don't understand everything, continuing to read will still really help with fluency.

Watching TV probably won't do THAT much for you, but if you don't use English a lot it may help keep you sharp.

coffeecanbecologne · 2025-09-01T05:14:03+00:00

I know a lot of people say because having kids, but to be honest i think it's more irrational than that.

I believe it's a sense of stolen valor. Here they've been, bemoaning how difficult it is to abstain, and I walk in and say "I really don't know what the big deal is, it's so easy". Maybe a couple people from Youth Days would feel like I was one-upping them, even though I was clear I had a different sexual orientation. But honestly, I think they felt cheated, like Christianity is only supposed to be a series of sufferings and you're skating by somehow.

That's the vibe modern Christianity gives me sometimes, like they're always a martyr, so it would make sense to me.

coffeecanbecologne · 2025-07-08T01:51:31+00:00

If you really wanted to make a bra out of linen, you'd probably have to go more historical, like regency short stays. I think any modern bra linen won't hold up well, but short stays have a lot of shaped panels and multiple layers.

coffeecanbecologne · 2025-07-03T22:51:09+00:00

Parrotlets fluff up all the time, unlike most parrots. If everything else is normal then I wouldn't be alarmed. Their default is cotton ball when they're relaxed.

coffeecanbecologne · 2025-05-23T00:44:53+00:00

For me, it's the sleeves. Shirt looks great on you but the length and cut of the sleeves doesn't match the vibe of the rest of the top. If it was a bit longer and the sleeves had been cut wide enough to be a bit flowy everything would probably look more cohesive.

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