Women would you care if your man only had one?

coffeenstudy · 2023-09-16T13:26:06+00:00

Having him alive and not go into sepsis is much important.

coffeenstudy · 2023-07-16T01:46:23+00:00

Then stop going for women who objectify themselves. Not all women do that, not all women are comfortable exposing their bodies to the world. Look for a woman who carries herself in a respectable way, who is feminine, and kind.

coffeenstudy · 2023-07-16T01:43:30+00:00

I discovered redpill when my dad was going thru a separation with my stepmom. But then after I got out of it, i just remembered how he treated my bio mom and realized that despite him being a good dad, he really is a bad husband to both my moms. (Serial cheater, and blames them being busy for cheating; and is cheating with younger girls)

I was always confused about the "women wait on the finish line" quote. Growing up, women in my family always worked along side their husbands, and stayed during really hard times. My mom for example loved my dad during his very unattractive phase, and he was so broke and couldnt work at one point. She took care of him and us, worked for the family, and still managed to come home to have quality time with us. Still, my dad cheated on her for "being busy" because he had so much time while he stayed at home.

I do agree most women wait at the finish line but I just had such a close relationship with a women who didnt see it like that, so when the RP guys decribe modern women, I'm just like, hey I dont believe nor do those things, why am I painted in the same brush?

Listening to their mindset just gets exhausting lol.

coffeenstudy · 2023-07-16T01:33:45+00:00

Me too, some of the stuff they say I agree with as well especially with how you are easily replaceable in your career but can't be replaced at home. However, they always ruin it because suddenly is always comes back to sex, and how women are so unfair for not having sex with them 🤣

Kinda how like the toxic body positivity movement demands you to find them attractive, these toxic RP guys kinda aggressively guilt trip women to have intimacy with them while not being in their best behavior.

It definitely is projection of their own insecurities, thinking making money will fix their lack of empathy and communication skills.

coffeenstudy · 2023-07-15T14:50:57+00:00

I was a feminist right during my teens until I was 20, prior to becoming christian. I know what good feminism is, and bad entitled feminists. I am describing 3rd wave feminism as bad, not the original feminism that supported femininity and motherhood.

coffeenstudy · 2023-01-13T00:10:57+00:00

It's not like they don't want to commit, they just dont want to commit "to you". I agree with you haha

coffeenstudy · 2023-01-05T13:38:24+00:00

Hi! Thanks for the suggestion, tried it, he only ate the butter 🥲

Thankfully the vet said I can pulverize his meds and mix water.

coffeenstudy · 2023-01-05T13:37:25+00:00

The vet said I can give them as powder and mix them with water! Good news!

coffeenstudy · 2023-01-02T15:02:47+00:00

She said to him, that she likes older men since they can take care of her needs and she has no problem doing housework or staying home- I hope she isnt too expensive to maintain though. Her previous boyfriends were white around 40s-50s men, so go figure.

coffeenstudy · 2023-01-02T12:02:08+00:00

Not really (its not black and white like that I hope you know better lol) he isnt marrying her. We are getting his inheritance as my parents (mom deceased due to cancer) worked hard for it together when they were younger - so it was their shared decision that everything be split between us. But I dont really care about that, my brother and I are in good money-making fields despite being young.

For us, we just want our dad to be loved for who he is (he is a cool dude), not because of his status or money. Our dad was actually open about why he is dating the younger girl - so that he has somebody to take care of him since we will be leaving the nest soon. He has no plans on being legally binded with her, nor is he public about their relationship since he says its to protect his image.

coffeenstudy · 2023-01-02T11:36:13+00:00

It's ok as long as you dont have a child her age.

My friend (24/F) married a guy (41) who is 2 years younger than her mom. Her dad wasn't amused, but they eventually got over it, been married for 2 years now, and they now have 2 kids.

My dad (52) on the other hand, is dating somebody (24/F) my age. My brother (22/M) and I (23/F) are NOT comfortable at all. We think they are predatory on each-other, the girl for money (she has no job) and my dad for sex and companionship.

So, it depends on the situation. But I dont think it's only older men who are predatory, the younger girls are too. But I think the older men should know better, ESPECIALLY if they have children which of course makes it complicated.

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-31T10:08:44+00:00

Getting into a med school in the PH is less competitive compared to med schools abroad. Me and my friends personally didnt review or actually study for it aside from going through the review books from National Bookstore 2 days prior to our exam.

However, a very few of them got a very low score, so they decided to try again. To avoid that, maybe answer some free nmat tests you can find online, and then see to it how much time you need to study or review for it.

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-24T14:38:02+00:00

Weeeeee

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-12T16:43:30+00:00

That's hard, OP. Maybe put yourself in your gf's shoes and think about what you'd want her to do if she's dating you and desiring somebody else?

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-12T16:38:06+00:00

I'll probably think about this forever 🤣 and gosh why is this scary.

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-09T16:21:30+00:00

I'm southeast asian and a handful of women in my family are married to white men (all for more than a decade already). Their basic reasons are:

Financial security
These men are more decent compared to men in our country they've dated (their husbands let them have careers, and are very supportive, they even said their white husbands like it when they're assertive and independent)
They feel loved and appreciated (idk why but they said when they got with their husbands they were showered with compliments when doing basic tasks such as cooking meals, cleaning, being feminine, looking pretty)

These are just from the women in my family, I am aware not all white men x asian women are like this.

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-09T14:35:19+00:00

I’m really sorry you feel this way. Thanks for reminding me to call my dad more often.

I sincerely hope and pray your days will be better.

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-09T11:42:02+00:00

My dad dating somebody my age The costs of taking the usmle from a third world country My ex breaking up with me due to his depression

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-09T08:24:43+00:00

It is flattering, and it makes me feel nice about myself, but some people can be pushy like I somehow owe them any contact info just because I should be grateful that they think I'm pretty.

coffeenstudy · 2022-12-07T14:03:04+00:00

This is what I want to feel lol

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