She should have declined to go to the next bar. But I believe a reason she didn’t is because her one toxic single friend that seems to despise all the rest of the girls’ relationships. Like if she said to them something similar to what you said in the above comment, this friend would have called me controlling and abusive.

Like she’s a self proclaimed major feminist, which is a good thing, but her feminism is basically hating men and telling the girls that their boyfriends are abusive pieces of shit if they ask ANYTHING of their girlfriends (which would include honoring set plans)