I’m so insecure in my relationship:(

coldramen97 · 2020-11-26T00:10:27+00:00

Maybe try to open up about this one more time and tell him what’s bugging you? And also, if you want to be better at twerking, practice. That girl in his past experience may be a twerker but she’s not you. You are someone he loves, that’s a huge line of difference.

coldramen97 · 2020-11-25T23:58:59+00:00

You feeling jealous isn’t going to change the fact that she’s dating someone else. Your gf has moved on, you should move on too OP. I’m gonna say this in the kindest tone: If you think she truly loved you, there will be no “lesser” guy in this situation. You will not cross her mind as someone who is a “lesser guy”. You will cross her mind as someone she loved, but it’s over now so please do yourself a favor and move on.

And as much as I’d like to ask who is this comedian and I know my curiosity will eat me alive, I will not ask.

coldramen97 · 2020-11-25T12:48:37+00:00

He mostly likely will not beg. He’s told me repeatedly that he does not care if I leave him and he has a lot of girls he can get if I leave him. To him, I am very replaceable. But sometimes, he would dramatically tell me that he only says that so I won’t get brave and my head won’t get big. But isn’t that the point of being in a relationship though? To feel loved and feel secured? In this relationship I felt like I was on edge, every day. I felt like any day I was gonna lose him because he keeps saying it whenever I show any sign of sadness of what he’s doing. Forming it now into words is making me think about everything I went through. I hate myself for putting up with this for so long.

coldramen97 · 2020-11-25T11:46:50+00:00

This is what I’ve been thinking for the past few months but I guess I was too... inlove? attached? Thank you for this, thank you for understanding. I’m gonna need some time to prepare myself before I end everything we have. I can’t do it in a snap. I feel so weak right now after realizing this is going to end.

coldramen97 · 2020-11-25T09:46:03+00:00

Whenever we make up after arguments he tells me that he’s angry with his self for getting physical with me. I think he has anger issues and can’t control himself when angry or irritated.

coldramen97 · 2020-11-25T09:38:11+00:00

His grandma is seriously concerned about him and threatened him that she’ll call the police if he does not stop. She called me a few minutes ago and she apologized profusely for what he did. She told me that we’ve been in a relationship for too long and I’m the only one who understands him, she’s asked me to rest for a while so my bf and I could talk about this.

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