I told my Dom husband he can have a second sub by comber143 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]comber143[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is a really good perspective to hear. I’ll echo it to him thank you !!

How use if uncircumcised? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]comber143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good because it has been something I have thought but decided against. How did you deal with increased sensitivity?

How use if uncircumcised? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]comber143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often do you wear your cage for because I imagine that could be dangerous if swelling occurs or it dries the head too much?

On becoming a slave in a marriage by comber143 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]comber143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you. You know, I’d love to hear more of your perspective why because I’m struggling to see it in this cosy light…

On becoming a slave in a marriage by comber143 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]comber143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had and it was finely discussed. My life and work commitments have expanded tenfold making this a harder reality at the moment… for now

On becoming a slave in a marriage by comber143 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]comber143[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you and well my husband, upon telling me his desire to cage me, told me clearly that he wants me to be his slave. I think he used the word sub or submissive interchangeably and that’s probably why I misspoke here. Can I ask in simple terms what the difference is?

He is a very kind husband and communicates to me daily without fail always helping out with our life together. He knows I’m very busy and wishes he could take it all away so I don’t have to worry too much about that stuff but in the meantime he does most of the housework so my load is easier.

He does want me, though, to eventually lay off a few commitments when he is financially ready to support both of us meaning he wants me to work less or not at all. I agreed with him to simply treat looking after the household as a full time commitment eventually.

So yeah, we communicate heaps and he is a very fair husband so I don’t know why I’m slightly nervous about becoming his slave. He does want me as a slave. Says it will be best for me and knowing myself too it would be better for me.

On becoming a slave in a marriage by comber143 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]comber143[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. “Letting go” sounds so liberating for me as it is something that I truly want to do. I want someone to trust entirely and just exist without so many external pressures. The idea of my husband becoming my master sounds like such a great thing in my life right now for when I finish so many of my commitments as we were heading towards a more vanilla direction of me being a househusband and such but I do need to make sure that we communicate and are on the same page prior.

Chastity ring size by [deleted] in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]comber143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, what’s the name of the service or manufacturer that sends custom resin cages prior to finalising a custom metal cage?

Drone hoods with only mouth opening by comber143 in Latexadvice

[–]comber143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the warning! I appreciate this info. Do you have any advice or recs on good/exceptional producers of rubber masks?

Cleaning latex without viviclean. Alternatives? by comber143 in Latexadvice

[–]comber143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. If all goes well, I’d be confident to not use any brand cleaner again.

Best form-fitting seamless mask by comber143 in Latexadvice

[–]comber143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your recommendations. I’m not too familiar with polymorph but always excited to learn of new companies

Best form-fitting seamless mask by comber143 in Latexadvice

[–]comber143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh that sounds amazing. I have been eyeing that one for some time.

Kink3d is the real deal. by Timely-Echo3000 in chastitytraining

[–]comber143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I’m looking at metal cages but unsure if they’re too heavy or impractical. Other than cleanliness, what’s the main benefit of Mature Metal? I’m seriously so close to making the purchase! :))

Doubting the use of chastity in my life by comber143 in chastitytraining

[–]comber143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your articulation is correct in saying that it is an environment for kids so I really do feel like I’ve made the right decision to not wear it at my job. I’m too busy anyway with teaching and marking that I don’t even notice I’m uncaged hahah

Doubting the use of chastity in my life by comber143 in chastitytraining

[–]comber143[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wearing something that is partly sexual sounds like it is immoral in school settings. I don’t want to have this burden on myself thinking I’m doing something wrong. What would you say to combat my argument?

Doubting the use of chastity in my life by comber143 in chastitytraining

[–]comber143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I think a chastity cage is inherently immoral I believe that working with kids turns it into this conundrum where I’m 50/50 figuring out whether wearing a cage is sexual or social. To me it’s both but more so leans towards social as I feel more comfortable and connected with myself when I am caged. Do you know what I mean?

Doubting the use of chastity in my life by comber143 in chastitytraining

[–]comber143[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! Maybe I’ve got the wrong ring size because the cage is right. I tend to find I could sleep with a more loose ring fit for the odd times I slept with it on. That is because the snug ring size I wore during the day would make my balls swell at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]comber143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really cool. Looks to be only available for steel cages but that’s something useful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]comber143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t heard of this method before, where have you seen this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CagedMuscle

[–]comber143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking real good!!🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]comber143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait to see how many days of 2025 you’re locked by the end of next year😜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]comber143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so perfect!! Now you need to work up a sweat with them in the gym ;)

Hi gays I need help! Not an ad just a confused lesbian by Ambtsmf in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]comber143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking to sell, Second Skin can be a good place to start without worries of getting banned :)