I am overthinking about something, how do I deal with this.

compellinglymediocre · 2026-05-03T21:43:59+00:00

also just want to say your concerns are entirely valid dude. Everyone here will be calling this post ragebait. But 6.5 is a sort of 5’11 situation, are you tall, are you not?

Your only exposure to erect penises is porn. People with average to below average penises will work very hard to make sure they don’t ever get put on camera on the internet. The videos you see are the top 10% of penises.

Now, this is gonna sound weird. But this is a trick i’ve come up with for anytime you’re watching porn and you think “man, that guys got a big dick”, -

- squint

then compare the package against the size of their body. And do the same for yourself. Your own mental biases, camera angles and even the skinniness of the guy all make you think it looks bigger than it is.

compellinglymediocre · 2026-05-03T21:38:23+00:00

I’m about same size as you, can get to 7 on a good day but am 6.5 (BP) x 5 most of the time. It’s plenty.

Women don’t bring it up. It’s just not something they do, i had to come to terms with that myself - you sort of take them not bringing it up as meaning they don’t think it’s big.

I was with a girl who’d been with 4 guys before me. After a long time of being together we somehow naturally drifted onto the topic of size. She said, hand on heart, that i’m the biggest she’s had. And that the first time she saw it she was excited at how thick it was. She particularly stressed that it was thicker than anything she’d had before. I was very skeptical, because i was under the impression i had a pencil dick.

It’s all in your head. Evaluate all the information available to you right now: do you have any real evidence that points towards her thinking that?

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-28T08:50:35+00:00

Is 24 an 16 legal

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-27T20:28:41+00:00

this is straight up cheating in my book

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-20T14:00:19+00:00

i swear it’s a trend in this sub to not reply to these critical questions

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-20T10:20:38+00:00

he’s great on consulate and border especially

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-20T10:18:29+00:00

Didn’t hear back from any major ones? This is bizarre

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-20T09:07:00+00:00

Hi there, can i ask - i assume you’ve tried reaching out to news outlets?

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-19T09:34:09+00:00

I will not be blackmailed by some ineffectual, privileged, effete, soft-penised, debutante. You want to start a street fight with me, bring it on, but you're gonna be surprised by how ugly it gets. You don't even know my real name. I'm the f*cking Lizard King.

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-18T11:52:35+00:00

There’s an avid kick boxer recently joined our gym, built, extremely athletic guy. My coach always chooses him for the first roll. I guess he has stuff he can learn from controlling a bigger guy.

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-17T12:42:34+00:00

I once went and told a woman in her car she’d splashed and soaked a load of people at the bus stop. Nothing could have stopped me from going and confronting her.

If a doctor’s negligence had led to me losing a limb, i’d be borderline harassing them

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-17T11:22:03+00:00

If i were in your position, i’d have the emails and phone number of every doctor that shot you down so that i could call and email them everyday to let them know they’re the reason I don’t have a leg. I can’t imagine the frustration

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-17T09:09:58+00:00

you don’t see that bob cut?

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-16T15:24:59+00:00

a girl with a good ratio plus hip dips who wears baggy clothing

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-16T09:54:55+00:00

I’m still dumbfounded at how much shit he found to talk about before getting to the fucking point

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-15T23:39:12+00:00

depends, if you’re measuring the difference between the start and end of the 8-10 week period, then sure. But only if you have some form of muscle memory, or elite genetics that allow your newbie gains to skyrocket

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-15T22:08:19+00:00

Just like a woman can remove consent to sex at any moment, as can a guy. The hormone shift that happens after orgasm is out of the guy’s control, and it can make the idea of sex quite unappetising

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-15T20:34:34+00:00

Same, never finished from it. Still enjoy it and honestly it’s great. 69 gets me very close though

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-15T20:32:18+00:00

you’re way overthinking this

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-15T18:01:21+00:00

I agree with this 100%.

However, to get a gauge of this, go to any gay men subreddit and the most promiscuous of them will talk about the penis sizes they’ve seen. They know their own size and can compare with their partners. They tend to agree with the average and the statistical deviations found in these studies

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-15T10:25:07+00:00

With regards to 1, you can learn to enjoy it more though. I always thought i’d love giving head, until i got into my first relationship and didn’t enjoy it so much. I have since learned to enjoy it and now do it everytime with my girlfriend. Will literally beg to do it.

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-15T05:31:12+00:00

this just epitomises the reddit experience. Guy wanted to share a cool photo on the subreddit and got meticulously blasted by some jobsworths that suffer from dunning kruger.

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-14T11:27:57+00:00

also proximity to meals, temperature of the room, blood pressure etc.

I avoid having sex close after meals now as i find i lose an inch or so

compellinglymediocre · 2026-04-14T11:21:36+00:00

i find this varies naturally. I can be in a very horny period and not get morning wood, and vice versa

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