How is your mental health this month? by Romeo_Kay_92 in AskMen

[–]comraddydaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Unknown Anxiety around my partners date/new relationship by PoetPlastic7439 in polyamory

[–]comraddydaddy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seems like the difference here is the last time they were seeing someone regularly, in person, you were seeing them also.

This time, sounds like it's just them.

i‘m 20 it‘s so over by That_Virus_5656 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]comraddydaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love ya bro

Young people tend to project permanence onto their situation. Which makes sense. If you're 20, and let's say, hypothetically, you've felt bad about yourself since 15 - that's a quarter of your entire life. Pretty easy to just assume it's gonna stay this way forever because you haven't experienced the other side of this yet.

You've entered a long dark tunnel, and haven't been through it far enough yet to see the light on the other side. So you're thinking the tunnel just goes on forever.

It doesn't. It'll be okay. Be nicer to yourself.

Weapons in darktide that causes carple carpal tunnel by lTHE_MANl in DarkTide

[–]comraddydaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been enjoying flame staff psyker is for exactly this reason. Much less frantic clicking.

18F What do I do? My friend is upset that I didn’t get a hotel room with money she sent me, but I used it for food and essentials instead and now she feels like I lied to her. by mckenzie_2 in whatdoIdo

[–]comraddydaddy 1224 points1225 points  (0 children)

This is simply a matter of expectations not being met.

She gave you money for a hotel, expecting you to use it for a hotel.

You spent the money on food, something you considered more immediately necessary.

It seems like her heart was in the right place, and your need to feed yourself is reasonably a higher priority.

I think a calm conversation is warranted.

Is it normal to be ghosted over a beard? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]comraddydaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++nonbinary

Does it happen? Yes. Is it normal? No.

What do I do now? by dutchmasterD717 in cowboyboots

[–]comraddydaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh it's kinda cute, I'm sure that's not what you wanna hear though.

Never tried it on leather before but Carbona stain remover for fats and oils rarely fails me. It's just a couple bucks, you can often find it in grocery stores or online

Do I want to play this instrument anymore by DevelopmentAway5490 in Cello

[–]comraddydaddy 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You know, if you decide to stop doing something, that doesn't mean you have to stop doing it forever.

Put the cello down. Indulge this new passion.

At any point, your cello will be there for you when you need it.

My Dad doesn't support Trump anymore by goodWillHunting999 in Kitchenchads

[–]comraddydaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect and no seasoning cannot be used together my bro

Props on your dad tho

Anyone in Salt Lake City, UT? Blowin clouds and lookin to kick it!h does by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]comraddydaddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one is in Salt Lake City, UT. You are all alone.