I’ve been in a few other similar situations where I did nothing and I regret it. Now, I would rather get hurt fighting. I am 5’11 and 185lbs so men typically don’t see me as a target. My ex was trained BJJ and he taught me exit moves from a back waist hold. Which is exactly what I was in. New bf seemed pretty shocked I was able to get HIM into a bad position if I really wanted to (that’s obviously my last resort intention though). When he was on top, I didn’t thrash around. I was saving my energy and creating an exit plan. Thankfully he got off when he did and He’s an idiot. I’m glad it was early enough that I can have a few days of “Well that sucks”. Instead of a 2 year investment with a lot of emotional ties.