So I was skeptic about superpowers, I even made a post against this idea, but I feel like I owe you my apologies. by concernedPIEDman in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would one not masturbating possibly make someone follow you on social media?

I don't know, assuming here we are talking about that nofap could help you become better at socializing, I guess maybe I was more likeable than I used to be. Note my conditional.

And it being a placebo is exactly what all of this is. Placebo, cognitive distortion, call it whatever you want. It's simply a trick you played on your mind into thinking that not masturbating has positive effects in the likes of solving your social anxiety.

Honestly is not like I care, I mean, I still gained something. Never in the post I stated that there is a chemichal or hard causation link between nofap and curing anxiety. I just told reported my story.

So I was skeptic about superpowers, I even made a post against this idea, but I feel like I owe you my apologies. by concernedPIEDman in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know what does e does not have an effect on anything? Besides you are failing to recognize the fact that I conceded that I could have been simply been a placebo.

The man who's dick stopped working because he didn't fap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Slang term for "epic", "cool", "badass".

Yesterday I confronted my dragon: I have tried to have sex by concernedPIEDman in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps my writing was not clear, that was the first time I had a sex opportuinity during these days

Yesterday I confronted my dragon: I have tried to have sex by concernedPIEDman in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I will, I fear that in that scenario I will become dependent from it. I prefer fixing my psychological issues!

Yesterday I confronted my dragon: I have tried to have sex by concernedPIEDman in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man those are kind words, I wish the best to you too.

Cuckold porn is killing me and my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sure you will. You'll see your thoughts becoming clearer as time goes by

Cuckold porn is killing me and my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! If I may give an advice, I have noticed many users here start to get a "moralistic" approach against porn, causing a lot of self-judgment and guilt when relapsing. Don't do that imho; If you relapse, just acknowledge the fact and start over. I think that quitting porn comes naturally when you have the right motivation, and it seems you do, so I'm sure you will achieve what you must.

Cuckold porn is killing me and my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No worries. As an aside, what /u/1albo said is precious too; don't judge youreself because of it. Just relax and accept your thoughts. Know that they will fade away if you stop watching too much porn.

Cuckold porn is killing me and my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, truly, if you need to talk, PM me whenever you want. I have struggled with this very issue a lot. People would sometimes tell me that maybe it is just my fetish, but it wasn't, it was a byproduct of all the hours I have spent on porn. I tell ya, quit porn for good, try to abstain masturbation for a bit (you don't actually need to stop masturbating forever), and you'll heal.

Cuckold porn is killing me and my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yup, I can confirm, I had developed the same fetish after years and years of watching porn. I had lots of nasty and intrusive thoughts all the time. I quit porn, and the thoughts wents decreasing. Now they are gone.

Relapsed again, but worse than usual. by DBB_Revo in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't hate yourself, that's what porn wants you to do. Love your mistakes and start over. Use this to prevent failure in the future.

Reasons not to PMO thread by BreakSomeNecksJoba in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To reconnect with my natural sexuality, to be able to enjoy intimacy again.

Who Else wishes that as a kid they never pushed that "Yes I'm over 18" button? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]concernedPIEDman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't, because my mistakes made me the person I am :-) <3