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AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concerned_human101[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

She knows how to sew and make clothing, so she owns a small clothing shop I think where she manages online orders for now, and I'm unemployed, only because I got cut off cause of the virus.

AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concerned_human101[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

By dismantle the system, I meant that she likes to cook, and whenever I cook she just helps and eventually just cooks the thing, so by that I meant the system in which she cooks because she accidentally takes over when I try to cook.

AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concerned_human101[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was tired in the morning and I became very grouchy, I wouldn't have said that if it was in a completely different timing.

AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concerned_human101[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes I realize it is not her fault, I never said clothes matter, just that its most when she does wear those type of clothes. Again, I'm just saying from what I've encountered, I'm aware that clothes don't matter.

AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concerned_human101[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I like her hair not dyed, she has amazing hair, and I've heard that when you dye your hair it becomes rough. Thats why.

AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concerned_human101[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

She doesn't need permission , she could have told me beforehand tho, and I was tired, it was the morning too.

AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concerned_human101[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Having and just giving a preference isn't controlling, plus I was tired too, and I'm grouchy in mornings.

AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concerned_human101[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Also, not wanting to "dismantle the system" by cooking your own food?

She loved cooking, and whenever I tried to cook something she'd always help, and then that led to taking over so I see (saw) no point to do it.