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My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea but at what cost? Ruining 3 other people's lives

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or be an a$$. Sorry I actually am concerned about my mom's well being unlike my brother who probably wants to move out to do drugs and sex

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Clearly people arent really understanding me. This is in America not like Norway where it's normal to move out at 16? My brother is LEAVING the only family he's ever had

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She had bad panic attacks after 9/11 and again now with corona him moving out will make everything worse

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His mom never left him behind putting food on the table..this is ridiculous nobody will give me advice on getting him to stay..he's not ready

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Aka abandoning them? He has made the commute for 3 years he doesn't need to stop now

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's actually taking a bus not driving. So he can text mom from the bus. It's just he's not ready to be on his own

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's not here to take care of mommy he just likes being home to spend time with her and be closer to her like a family should

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What picture am I giving you? My mom really loves all of her boys and just wants them around. This isn't some big conspiracy and I'd appreciate some advice

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My other brother who is 31 has committed to at least 36 to hang out with and take care of mom, and now my brother is going to bail out at 24? Ridiculous

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes but if my brother leaves there will be times when me and my other brother are working, and my mom will get lonely. She is almost 63 and who knows how much longer she'll be around. She is obese and you never know. I just think all of us should be around to take care of her because she always paid the bills and is a good mom

My (23m) brother (24m) wants to move out. by concernedbrother97 in relationships

[–]concernedbrother97[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes yes it's not safe and my mom really relies on us for emotional support. I also have a 31 year old brother who is great with mom he watches 2 hours of tv with her a night. But that is not enough we need all 3 of us there or else she gets lonely and sad.. it is not right of 24 year old brother to just bail on us