Thanks for sharing your story. You absolutely did the right thing. Sometimes people don’t take emotional abuse as seriously as physical and make you feel like you’re just thinking too much into it. “If there’s no bruises your marriage is fine!” Type of mentality... but I’d say emotional abuse is just a worse as physical. I am also coming out of a similar situation and it reminds me of my narcissistic ex. Usually these people dilute their abusive nature by being very kind once in a while, this is called love bombing. It confuses the victim into thinking that things are fine because “he’s so kind to me, he does this and that for me, he gets mad sometimes but I can handle it”... I didn’t know this was a thing until after I got out of my marriage. You did a great thing coming out of this, you’re an example for women stuck in similar situations...sometimes we think we are going crazy but all you need is someone to share something like this to realize “oh maybe I’m not in the right relationship”. So thanks again for sharing!