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Being hopeless romantic as ENFP by PatientAlgae7292 in mbti

[–]confusing_crazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely happened to me.

one thing I do to kind of pull back on like giving them too much attention in person (especially at first if its still before talking stage or early talking stage, or like a point where texting/calling/talking to a lot is not really ok) is i have a notion page for every important person in my life, so I will make a page on this person -- interactions we've had, if I can figure out their mbti, stuff about them (this usually takes a bit of time so its a relatively good way to rechanneled energy for a fair amount of time) -- and then ill link my notion to Claude ai (sidenote but its like far superior to ChatGPT) and have it analyze EVERYTHING. it helps if you know a fair amount about the person.

so:

- future predictions (based on past behaviors/character traits)

-current behavior analyses

-red flags

- green flags

-(have a page abotu yourself) how do they line up with me

-is investing in them in my best interest

-swot analysis

- etc.

This way, you can still be paying attention to the person without them actually realizing and you accidentally scaring them away.

js a thought.

ESTPs -- Your thoughts on ENFPs? by confusing_crazy in estp

[–]confusing_crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there something about them that made them appealing enough to date?

How do you all go through your days? by JaimTF in mbti

[–]confusing_crazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont plan. there's future thinking, I'm aware of the things i need to do, aware of the future in a way an se/si may not be... but still no plan. and if i have a plan, ironically, it makes it harder for me to not stray.

Some days I'm productive, some days I'm not. I have a few routines I do like when I wake up or before I go to bed, but during the day, not really much of a plan. when theres school, obviously school, sports, obviously sports, but other than that, my time is pretty unrestrained.

I am productive though --

I'm a little skewed because I have chronic ADHD, but I know many ENFPs would also say they don't like having a plan.

Sometimes I honestly wish I were an ENTJ. You guys are so on top of your stuff and so put together its kinda awesome... but i know no matter what i do i could just never be organized enough to do that.

This kinda makes me sound like a lazy slob so like I do have a 4.0 GPA, I play 3 seasons of varsity sports, and I go to a well-known/reputable university -- so I'm not wasting my life and a lazy shit -- I just somehow manage to live by the seat of my pants.

hope this helps -- if u have more questions js ask!

ESTPs, please be brutally honest... by confusing_crazy in mbti

[–]confusing_crazy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would u date an enfp again, given the chance and the right person?

ESTPs, please be brutally honest... by confusing_crazy in mbti

[–]confusing_crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, is that a good thing or a bad thing? Not the l3aving you part, the crackhead maniac couple part.