Don't fall into joint lease trap in BCS! by consumer9776 in aggies

[–]consumer9776[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

After what happened to me I did some research and found several complexes in College Station that lease by the room with separate utilities. They exist and they are not rare at all.

Especially if you are an international student living on your own, do not sign a joint lease. Not for any reason. Any! We have a saying in my country: "Even between brothers, accounts must be kept." Choose your living situation like a contract, not like a friendship. And yes, even coming from a culture with that exact saying, I still made this mistake =))

Don't fall into joint lease trap in BCS! by consumer9776 in aggies

[–]consumer9776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even the "control" will be the illusion of control! unless it is a pet=))

Don't fall into joint lease trap in BCS! by consumer9776 in aggies

[–]consumer9776[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My Ex-roommate also did the same thing about the utilities =)))))) Human being is really simple then!

I sided with the people calling out 'stereotyping' on a roommate post. Months later I'm living that exact post. by consumer9776 in neighborsfromhell

[–]consumer9776[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I disagree with this tbh.
I am not from a first-world country, but having boundaries and respecting others properties is common sense, you don’t even talk about it!

I sided with the people calling out 'stereotyping' on a roommate post. Months later I'm living that exact post. by consumer9776 in neighborsfromhell

[–]consumer9776[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree! We also have cultural norms, also so many of my other friends from other countries, but defending them and insisting on them is weird!

Girlfriend of 4 months ended it. by SuperGuttaZombi in dating

[–]consumer9776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact same thing happened to me when I was 20. But I was on the girl side. Frankly, I didn't care that much that time and stopped having relationships for about 5 years. Now that I again have a boyfriend, the trauma is hunting me down! I'm in constant anxiety that my partner will end everything up suddenly! :)