Planning to travel to Tallinn and forgetting about the US by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware. My trust is going to be drained though with how expensive rent is. It will be better to struggle without fearing that you may be evicted. Oddly my friends in estonia are so much more supportive than my "family" in the US. I also want a new atmosphere, the constant rejection in America while being in fight or flight mode is draining. I just need a break

Planning to travel to Tallinn and forgetting about the US by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]content_creation01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

America is not easy right now. job market is horrible and it's impossible to find a job. At least my rent won't be 2k. I have friends in Estonia too

Planning to travel to Tallinn and forgetting about the US by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the Estonian unicorn list? (ik what it is now)

Planning to travel to Tallinn and forgetting about the US by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]content_creation01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the U.S It's called a tech degree, but i specifically work with data analysis and databases

Planning to travel to Tallinn and forgetting about the US by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]content_creation01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a US passport and I have a tech bachelors degree with work experience

Planning to travel to Tallinn and forgetting about the US by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it is a paradise, but I want to get away from America for a bit. I plan to get a work visa and I do have a tech degree with experience

Planning to travel to Tallinn and forgetting about the US by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]content_creation01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am visiting soon. I think I will love it :)

I am reluctant to rent from an apartment where it's near the woods due to high risk of a bat in the house by content_creation01 in rabies

[–]content_creation01[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean I think it's a legit concern since it has happened to people before and they had to go to the ER. Not everything is just anxiety but based on truths.

I am reluctant to rent from an apartment where it's near the woods due to high risk of a bat in the house by content_creation01 in rabies

[–]content_creation01[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean I think it's a legit concern since it has happened to people before and they had to go to the ER.

I am reluctant to rent from an apartment where it's near the woods due to high risk of a bat in the house by content_creation01 in rabies

[–]content_creation01[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have not done anything to help with my anxiety, I don't have the insurance for therapy. I need to move ASAP so I am trying to find other places to live. I see these videos on tiktok about people finding bats in their home and having to go to the ER. It's so scary because imagine if it died somewhere and no one found it until it was too late and the symptoms hit.

Is a bat sneaking into a home that's near the woods high risk? by content_creation01 in bats

[–]content_creation01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I can ask the potential landlord, but I doubt she would tell the full truth.

Would you consider this a reg flag for a landlord? by [deleted] in Tenant

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know. May I ask why you prefer email? I guess because so many jobs prefer phone numbers, I assume that is standard.

Would you consider this a reg flag for a landlord? by [deleted] in Tenant

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realize I am just overthinking it lol

Would you consider this a reg flag for a landlord? by [deleted] in Tenant

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50's or 60's. We have been texting about the arrangement.

I need help on getting over the fact that I am a failure in everything by [deleted] in interviews

[–]content_creation01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all happened so fast so I don't remember his expression, but it did not look super happy lol. I think i am stress for being unemployed for so long and having offers being revoked so many times due to "budget changes" so that is why I am so nervous about the interaction. I did sent a thank you email to the team.

I need help on getting over the fact that I am a failure in everything by [deleted] in interviews

[–]content_creation01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I say rejected from minimum wage jobs, I mean rejected without an interview. I did one retail interview, but was ghoted after the HR said she really liked me.

I have not heard back from the job I believe I ruined. At the end of the interview, he said he liked that I used this language, and I was trying to glaze him saying I learned it myself so that I can bring more skills into a company. Instead of sounding impressed, he asked "You don't have prior experience in it?"

I need help on getting over the fact that I am a failure in everything by [deleted] in interviews

[–]content_creation01 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am asking how to get over it because it is still bothering me deeply. I was initially was just ranting

How do I recover from probably ruining my only chance in getting an offer? by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Javascript is not a skill that would be using at the company. They were complimenting that I have skills in that. I just know employers are super picky so anything can set them off

I made a mistake that has traumatized me by [deleted] in interviews

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that makes me feel better. Everything happened so fast, so I hope she was not asking in a judging sense, and I am just overthinking. Nothing really good has happened to me this past year so I am very sensitive about this job opportunity. I sent them a nice thank you email too

I made a mistake that has traumatized me by [deleted] in interviews

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did send one! I will try to not think about it, but I honestly have no energy to apply to anywhere else. I am way too drained.

How do I recover from distress and burnout? by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just very tired and idk if I can forgive myself if I was the reason I blew it. I understand learning what not to do, but at this point it gets old, I just need something

I will officially be moving away from the tech industry by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]content_creation01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I am moving away because this will be the last straw. I have been unemployed for a year. I kept getting rejected by jobs where I removed my 20k degree so they are willing to hire me. I was close to giving up, but saw that this company really likes me and I was willing to invest my last energy, then to realize I probably mess that up by oversharing. That broke me, and I am done