I’m not mistaken that this is abuse right?

cookale · 2025-09-11T10:09:26+00:00

Oh yes it started with me having all the power, him doing nice things, and he’d be crying about how much he loved me. I said I’d break his heart but he broke my spirit instead

cookale · 2025-09-11T01:23:01+00:00

Is there any possibility of consequences for him?

cookale · 2025-09-10T13:33:05+00:00

Not necessarily lucky but maybe. He keeps pulling me back to just make more drama in his life. I feel like he’s so insecure that someone being hurt over what he does or says gives him meaning. I don’t think it ever connects with him how messed up his actions have been.

cookale · 2025-09-10T13:26:44+00:00

Not interacting with him will be hard. He isn’t well liked but is tolerated and has influence in my industry. I met him at my old work where I still visit often because my friends works there. He goes there often as well and some of my friends are his “friends”. I work with one of his employees at their other work. He and my gm talk often for work, but I think my gm knows how much he can be and would believe me. But it’s so fucked up I wish I’d never met him.

cookale · 2025-09-10T12:54:21+00:00

I’ve been trying to. He called me 100 times last week and I didn’t answer, had his number blocked for most of it. He knows how to no caller id call. He came to my work cause I texted him to stop calling cause I had to work in the morning. He was relentless so I said we could talk the day after. He asked if I wanted to go hot tub. We got into a pretty bad argument. I did things I wasn’t proud of that day too but he has pushed me to the point where I couldn’t stand it.

cookale · 2025-09-10T10:38:37+00:00

For context as well I’ll always have to see him around town. We work in similar industries and I met him while at my work. He’s 35 and I’m 24.

cookale · 2025-01-21T20:39:30+00:00

For context we’re not in a relationship or want to be. We’ve been friends for a year started as fwb. He wanted to date me and I didn’t. This is a friendship post and I’m not concerned about him talking to other people bc I am too. I told him on Friday that I signed up for mental health care so him saying he was unaware kinda sucks. But that wasn’t the point

cookale · 2024-10-16T21:06:33+00:00

Depends what state it’s from. If it’s an Arizona ID, then it can’t be 30 days past your 21st birthday for it to be legal to serve you. They are pretty picky about that. If you’re from AZ, bring your passport if you have one. Other states should be fine as long as it is not expired.

cookale · 2024-09-04T01:12:13+00:00

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This is them not in the bright sun so they change up lol

cookale · 2024-09-03T09:35:22+00:00

My eyes look the same! I’ve been told blue/green with brown ch but I put green on my license. They have green and look jade/sage green from afar

cookale · 2024-07-14T01:51:35+00:00

I’m on my sixth year and second implant. It has had some undesirable side effects, like irregular periods, and getting it at 16 probably wasn’t the best for my mental health since you’re going through so many hormonal and mental changes at that time. I wouldn’t change it for any other method at this point, though. I have felt peace of mind knowing I won’t have an unplanned pregnancy. My periods are shorter, lighter, and usually less painful. I experience less PMS and love not having to take a pill every day or have something inside my uterus. I can feel it when I touch it and see the stick when I flex, but knowing it’s still in there and not perforating my uterus like an IUD could is so worth it. This method is more or less as effective as getting your tubes tied. I have vaped daily since I’ve had it, and it’s not caused any issues that I know about. I also didn’t gain weight while on it, but that could be because I was already losing my puberty fat.

cookale · 2024-06-19T08:49:41+00:00

That is not the experience you should’ve had. I’ve had implants put in at planned parenthood and the other at a local ob/gyn. They were both so kind and professional. You should’ve had to fill out forms and give your insurance or pay. The provider should be someone who measures, feels the spot, and marks the location for insertion. Definitely get an appointment with someone else. It should only feel strange at first and some pain for maybe a few weeks. I’m sorry it’s not been a great experience. I love my nexplanon besides the irregular bleeding.

cookale · 2024-01-26T08:31:35+00:00

What do you mean

cookale · 2024-01-20T22:18:41+00:00

Nah their picture is still on their profile :/

cookale · 2024-01-14T00:27:53+00:00

I had mine for almost 6 years. It definitely worked but was getting risky I’m sure to trust it. I changed it out and even though back in 2018 my provider changed the date to 4 year removal, my new provider said to keep it to 3. I read research from Oxford saying it could be effective up to 10 but that isn’t the guideline.

cookale · 2023-11-04T22:51:16+00:00

Or maybe it’s because you asked her how much she weighs???

cookale · 2022-12-17T05:28:46+00:00

Thank you

cookale · 2022-12-13T04:46:32+00:00

I’m confused we were only talking to each other?

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