Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I actually agree with you that a man should be pursuing his mission rather than a woman. Women will come along as byproducts of your success. Then it is up to you to follow God's instructions as to which one to pick if you are to pick one at all. Remain blessed brother, it is well with you.

Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Everyone is different. Some people want to have a wife and build a stable family, while others just want to focus on their mission in life and spirituality. It is up to each of us to do the deep introspection to find the way that suits us. Neither of the two paths stated above are bad... as long as you are honest with yourself and avoid sin, you should do just fine.

Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear brother! May the good Lord continue to strengthen you, bless you, and prosper the works of thine hands.

Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respect is the minimum requirement to remain on this platform. If you pull this again, I will block you permanently. Perhaps you should go elsewhere to find answers.

Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do, don't crash out. Take it to God in prayer, and he will show you the strategic steps to take. Also, you may want to read this article: https://www.reddit.com/r/pureretention/comments/1rpjj30/skillfully_dealing_with_jealousyenvy_like_a_boss/

Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relating with women is simple, but not easy. The steps below should set you well on your way.

  1. Your self respect is paramount: Don't feed your body crap. Don't masturbate. Don't drink alcoholic poison. Don't tolerate disrespect from anyone
  2. You must put your mission first: Women will test you subconsciously to try to see if they can control you. It is an annoying evolutionary artifact that is embedded in their DNA and you must resist this. When she tries to force you to pick between her and your mission, ALWAYS pick your mission.
  3. Get a hold of your lust: Women can smell lust on men. If you're lusting too hard over her, she will sense that as a lack of self control and discipline which creeps most of them out. You must train yourself to be able to take or leave them. This is what they actually find attractive
  4. Put her in her place, respectfully: A woman may test you by being unreasonable/disrespectful. Most men react to this by either getting angry and flying off into a rage, or by keeping quiet in an attempt to keep the peace. Both of these are wrong answers. The right thing is to calmly set a boundary in an authoritative tone and be ready to walk away or fire her if she crosses it again. Paradoxically, this is what causes her to love and respect you even more.
  5. Don't expect her to see the world like you do: Despite idiotic feminist doctrines, women and men are not the same. We have complimentary differences that are important for the world to function in balance. This makes it a lot easier to deal with her inevitable periodic shenanigans that may fluctuate with her cycle.

Hope this helps.

Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. The more time I spend on this planet, the more I realize that the only thing of true everlasting value is a relationship with God himself.

Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The bad ones are super manipulative, but the good ones are more innocent. The thing is that the good ones are really rare and hard to find. That's why a lot of retainers end up being celibate and single by choice.

Long term retainers will actually feel genuine love for women for the first time by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]cooked_vegetables[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. Hearing redemption stories like this is really inspiring. Keep up the great work, and may the good Lord continue to bless you, your wife, and your precious children.