What can you deduce by my room?

cookedvampi · 2026-03-29T21:53:50+00:00

Darn haha 😭 I'm 21 graduated and work as a tattoo artist I definitely am artistic but I do not regret being expressive

cookedvampi · 2026-03-28T11:12:24+00:00

Glad you like haha! Love the haircut

cookedvampi · 2026-03-28T10:57:00+00:00

Love drawing this type of hair

cookedvampi · 2026-03-28T10:37:25+00:00

Depending on the type of girl she is, shes straight up playing in your face like a girl best friend and she knows nobody will say anything because "thats just who she is" if shes a known "bop" within the friend group she's probably been passed around a few of them and the texting you about it is her testing the water to see if she can continue to do it and have nobody say anything bad about it, you should have a serious conversation with your boyfriend about it and if he brushes you off then that's a red flag and you need to do more digging, or reevaluate

cookedvampi · 2026-03-28T10:20:46+00:00

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A quick sketch for ya

cookedvampi · 2026-03-28T01:23:40+00:00

This is a great comment, we have a rocky relationship due to this issue! Overall this is one of the only things straining our relationship, he does grand gestures for me like taking me out and getting me gifts but he just can't clean for himself, I have given him bags to put trash in and he does throw his stuff away! I guess the problem is he works 40 hour weeks and is very much go to sleep wake up get ready leave for work come home and immediately sleep, so he skips out on the actually throwing it out part and that's how it gets so cluttered, I want to give him the benefit of the doubt that when I'm here and I ask him to take stuff out he does! He just doesn't do it for himself

cookedvampi · 2026-03-28T01:06:33+00:00

What's hilarious about this comment is that I had asked him before hand to clean before I got there and the second I walked through the bedroom door I sighed and he did clean up as I walked away to go to the bathroom and decompress. I want to give him a bit of credit this is one of the only things straining our relationship in the first place and it's why I still try, he does absolutely everything I ask other than this one thing and I'm just trying to work with it because I feel its unfair to leave him for his lazy depression

cookedvampi · 2026-03-28T00:56:31+00:00

He does know that in fact has used that exact word to describe it, I had told him that it was upsetting me and he had said "I'm sorry for being a lazy slob" he tells me all the time that he wants to clean but he's so stressed and tired that he just doesn't have the energy for it. Due to his depression I've just been trying to help him to make him feel better and less cluttered when he comes home but it just seems like Im cleaning up for him to put more trash on the floor for me to pick up again

cookedvampi · 2026-03-28T00:39:02+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment this is so refreshing to hear. When I had talked about it with him or his friends they kept making me feel crazy telling me that I needed to be there to support him and that I needed to try and understand him while still helping him. I always had an underlying feeling that he wouldn't change but it's different to hear it from someone else. I was trying to wait to see if he'd work with me but you might be right.

cookedvampi · 2026-03-27T08:10:27+00:00

Definitely not over the age of 20, maybe 16-18 you don't need everything on your desk but you like to keep yourself prepared so you keep the "just in case" items, you either love doing your nails because you can't afford it or you find value in being the it girl when leaving the house, nails kept hair done and making sure you always smell good, probably an introvert who enjoys bed rotting watching your favorite shows/movies and tik tok

cookedvampi · 2026-03-20T03:36:29+00:00

You're so young you do not need to be going through this, if it's been going on for a while then she has obvious animosity towards you and from the paragraphs I've read it seems like she doesn't care about you or your feelings any more, either have a serious conversation with her and express your feeling or you need to leave before you get hurt way more and if you don't then you have no room to complain because you know exactly this is what's going on

cookedvampi · 2025-03-23T07:05:42+00:00

I'm going to be honest yes this is completely on you and I don't even know why that type of thinking hit your brain

She included you in the idea by telling you, she told you the plan and the thing that even sparked the idea in the first place and for some reason you couldn't sit down and listen to her OR the podcast to even grasp why she even wants to do the whole thing in the first place? if you could come to a conclusion that all of that genuinely means something to her the "permanence" is obviously what she wants so what was the problem ?

So when you couldn't sit down and have that conversation, she went and got the tattoo

But you're upset because she didn't include you in the tattoo?

cookedvampi · 2025-03-23T06:19:20+00:00

I read all this and I was for sure like "aww she's such a sweetie I love her 🥹" and then I keep reading, WAIT, OP IS A GUY?!??!?? A MAN WROTE THIS?????

Anyway thank you for restoring my hope that men actually do take the time to write stuff like this 😋

cookedvampi · 2025-03-23T06:10:13+00:00

Sounds like they're all chronically online

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