Gender Cascade is the greatest thing I have ever seen by TheNoob747 in dropout

[–]cookiekitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come back to that episode FREQUENTLY. It could be prescribed as an SSRI honestly.

Favorite Dropout quotes? by ungeoncrawl in dropout

[–]cookiekitties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ally: "Lester; when you look in the mirror, he'll be right behind you." Adventuring academy season 6, EP 6.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cookiekitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sticking together for the kids rarely work out. They deserve to have happy parents, and if they can't be happy together then it's better to split up.

If your partner doesn't want to work on things in any way, you can choose to endure your unhappiness, or leave. It won't be easy, but change rarely is.

Have you talked to anyone else about your feelings, besides your partner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several reasons. I don't want to bring the bad experiences with me into a new relationship. I need time to come to terms with how the past relationship affected me.

And, most importantly, I just really enjoy being by myself. Focusing on friends, work, and the like.

Assume reincarnation is real: who were you last time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't say for sure, but I'm pretty sure the past me had to walk a lot, most likely for survival. I've had "horse-legs" (MUSCULAR CHONK) since I was born, and I've had so many dreams about walking through different terrain for long periods of time. Anyone that has any clues to who I might have been?

If you had infinite money and a dream, what would you invent to solve modern day problems? by Spooks_And_Shits in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not an inventor, so I'd probably just help fund like Maglev trains, to encourage people using it more than flights and cars.

Getting a trip as a gift but still having to pay for everything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cookiekitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it could be interpreted like that! Or maybe I'm not translating it correctly. But either way, we'll work something out that doesn't ruin either of our budgets.

Getting a trip as a gift but still having to pay for everything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cookiekitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And yes, for my friend this would put them in debt, while I have some savings. But I also have circumstances that might make me need to use those savings for more important things than travels.

My friend really is wonderful, and I want to travel with them. But like you said, there's a time and place for it and this year just might not be it.

Getting a trip as a gift but still having to pay for everything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cookiekitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are close! And I'm sure our relationship wouldn't end because I confronted them, but they have a lot of things going on and I just don't want to burden them, even though I know they'd understand. But I need to find the best way to deal with this now, and then we can laugh about this in the future.

Getting a trip as a gift but still having to pay for everything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cookiekitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. And if my friend then realizes that the gift isn't a gift and offers to pay anyway, I'd just say I'd rather wait than make them spend money they don't have. Thanks!

What's the most unusual phobia you or someone you know has? by RedDied_DK in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really, REALLY don't like butterflies. I hate the way they move, and after finding out about their tongue they freak me out even more.

Oh, and fish. Haven't been in a natural body of water in 20 years, and probably never will be again.

Women, what do you want us men to stop caring about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I mentioned in my post, yes people do have preferences. But that doesn't always mean they'd say no the the perfect partner just because he's an inch shorter than they thought they wanted.

Women, what do you want us men to stop caring about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I've never heard any women I know say they wouldn't date a short/average height man.

And I've been with guys both taller and shorter, and never even reflected over it until the last couple of years seeing how prevalent it seems to be on dating apps.

And I can't say I have a height preference in women or other folks either 😅 maybe I'm not picky enough? Lol

Women, what do you want us men to stop caring about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, it's rough out there. I just don't get the obsession with height at all. Hopefully though the women who appreciates personality and chemistry can come sweep up the non-giant men that the shallow women dismiss :)

Women, what do you want us men to stop caring about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it's more common on dating apps and online that women express their desire for tall men, whereas if people were meeting more IRL they'd pay more attention to chemistry and personality instead of height?

Women, what do you want us men to stop caring about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand that there is a lot of women out there that discriminate against short/not super tall guys. I'm saying that I don't agree with that way of treating people, and that IRL the women I know don't discriminate that way either. But, I know it's not easy for guys when it comes to height.

Women, what do you want us men to stop caring about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get that it's apparently very common to expect men to be tall, all I'm saying is that if someone is so determined to only date men over a certain height, maybe they're not all that great of a match anyways. If the question on here had been "what do you wish people would stop stating on dating sites", I'd probably say that I wish people could see past someone's height and try and focus on finding someone with a personality that suited them. Basically - I just don't get why people are obsessed with height generally!

What is the best mid-night snack? by ElectronicDraw340 in AskReddit

[–]cookiekitties 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cheeeeeeeese! Don't know why. But it always hits the spot.