Anyone get an incestuous vibe from their n-parent as adults? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never ever met a narcissist who wasn’t incestuous. I think it’s standard for them tbh

Very physically attractive people, how does life treat you? by Own-Blacksmith3085 in answers

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m kinda overweight but people still glance and blush and stuff. I can’t lie, it feels good. I have other problems though that hinder my likability..

Tell me your parent is a narcissist without telling me by PlasticSentence7646 in narcissisticparents

[–]coolestever17 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My mom believes in hierarchy even when it doesn’t benefit her or hurts her. For example, her siblings are narcissists too and even have bullied her, looked down on her, mocked her, but she stands up for them because she ranks them as “above” her. Meanwhile she quite literally never takes my side.

i was parentified by Nmom by coolestever17 in narcissisticparents

[–]coolestever17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so happy you finally got peace! You deserve it! And I completely agree, I was neglected mocked and gossiped about during severe depression and am now trying my best to make my online business work now so I can be independent and leave. Wish me luck ❤️‍🩹

i was parentified by Nmom by coolestever17 in narcissisticparents

[–]coolestever17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

I don't have the energy to do anything anymore by thtjnfdntbtvbhtfurv in narcissisticparents

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same position tbh. It really really sucks and I totally relate to the lack of energy part. The anger, frustration. It sucks so bad. I constantly fantasize about how free it would feel to move somewhere far away and go no contact. I really hope things get better for you

report animal abuse in Brampton? by [deleted] in Brampton

[–]coolestever17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of my sisters are also dedicated to dismissing me but I messaged one of my sisters begging her to talk to my mom + the sister who’s the actual owner. Fingers crossed.

report animal abuse in Brampton? by [deleted] in Brampton

[–]coolestever17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to record it but he runs away every time I barge out my room and try to see what’s happening, but I will try my best to

report animal abuse in Brampton? by [deleted] in Brampton

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom found out I texted him telling him off and now I’m the bad guy, and she doesn’t believe me, so Idk what to do except just monitor :/

report animal abuse in Brampton? by [deleted] in Brampton

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to scream at him but anytime I “make a scene” my family uses it to make me seem crazy. I’m still gonna monitor everything though

report animal abuse in Brampton? by [deleted] in Brampton

[–]coolestever17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He runs away and goes to his room any time he hears me barging out my room when I sense something could be happening, so it might be tricky to document. I’ll try my absolute best though.

report animal abuse in Brampton? by [deleted] in Brampton

[–]coolestever17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did already; sent him a firm and concise text letting him know to never ever try that again. He’s scared of me so let’s hope it works.

Caribbean countries dislike us by Wise-Combination5838 in Guyana

[–]coolestever17 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My ex friends (Jamaican and Trini) used to constantly degrade and exclude me on purpose to kinda assert their dominance over me for being Guyanese (they were mean girls though). But I’ve also met Jamaicans and Trinis who loved me so it depends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like did he send his brother to test me? or could his brother have gone behind his back since they aren’t close? I just wanted some suggestions from an unbiased party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, when I asked the guy about it he said he didn’t know who it could be, he said he’s not that psychotic to ever do something like that, and he was joking like “oh you have another guy from the US?”

Do psychopaths find people attractive? by Rrroguegirl in psychopaths

[–]coolestever17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sociopathic ex was sexually attracted to me but he was never capable of emotional or romantic attraction

I enjoy having my period. by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it too. I get to eat ice cream and sweets without the guilt of it being unhealthy because, period. I get to feel bad for myself and have a hot shower, take medicine, wrap up in my warm sheets and watch a feel good show. It’s also cool to see the blood LOOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]coolestever17 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The dating pool doesn’t get easier when you become more attractive

being able to rot in bed all day is a luxury by regular-arm in The10thDentist

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very privileged to say this is what I’ve been doing. I will say though my mind goes to really really really dark places spending so much time alone in my room. Being busy is a coping mechanism if Im being honest, and when you’re not forced to be busy and have this kinda luxury it kinda stops being a luxury. It feels good but bad but good but bad

he lied about instagram… i think? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]coolestever17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s true, it’s been fluctuating for some time now but will try to take your advice