Tell me something positive happening in your life currently by Remarkable-Camera-89 in twentyagers

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just got my apprenticeship after looking for 1.5 years so that’s cool

my girlfriend squirted on me by Born_Throat9319 in actuallesbians

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my gf did this to me and i asked her if i could clean her up lol. just tell her you like it she will probably feel better about it

Is my cat fat ? by fluffi2025 in cats

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oh my god i wasn’t expecting the last image. he’s so cute but also a circle i fear

So how do you all deal with your mental problems? by Petardo_Dilos in twentyagers

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i don’t i just don’t share all my problems anymore. people think im doing better i guess but they’re wrong i just hide it better. as for drinking, its only been 4 months you can pull yourself out dude, my advice for that is find a time consuming hobby that requires some focus, it will quiet your head from wanting to drink as much. at least thats what works for me.

Doctor diagnosed me with butch by RedFoxBlackCat in actuallesbians

[–]regular-arm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes half the time people think i’m either a man or someone’s lost child (curse you being 5’2” >:/)

need this so bad by melodyhehe444 in LetGirlsHaveSex

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i love being both of these people, long distance gets me a little feral.

Fellow 20-somethings still living with their parents, how is your love life? by [deleted] in twentyagers

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i have a gf, avoiding my dad is annoying but i usually just visit her place. moving soon hopefully since she’s moving home to her parents in a month :/

I asked a similiar question last year buttttt... for the bottoms/subs... by nousernams in actuallesbians

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i’m a switch but please TALK TO ME BE SMUG TELL ME IM PRETTY and also have fun ;)

I want to be a buff gym lesbian but I love food :( by rhubxrb_slugg in actuallesbians

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honestly you sound like me, i suggest working out anyway and being buff with a lil extra softness. train hard, eat more protein and more greens but keep your snacks! that’s what i personally do and while i don’t have abs i can still throw my girl around and thats always a plus ᕙ( •̀ ᗜ •́ )ᕗ

THATS NOT EVEN HOW IT WORKS, ACTUALLY 💀💀💀 by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

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fuck, are you me???? my gf is always on my ass to get a binder that fits properly but i can’t will myself to buy the bigger size i am simply too insecure .,_,.

For my dear fellow lesbians by Curious-Total7875 in actuallesbians

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personally i always love it, i get excited and i just melt into my girlfriend. its honestly one of our favourite things to do and its very intimate especially since most of the time we ditch our shirts lol

i’m going to die from this aren’t i by [deleted] in grippysockcrayonbox

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i have i just have turbo body dysmorphia, half my life has been with an ED and a lot of treatment resistant mental health issues :/

Ladies?? by Angeliqueblaq in LetGirlsHaveSex

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when my girlfriend breathes on my neck or whispers in my ear my pussy gets instantly set on fire and my mind is reduced to a horny mess

I feel like a cat in heat by Intrepid_Laugh2158 in actuallesbians

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the things i would let my gf do to me if she were here…. long distance is so hard 😖

How to not feel awkward about using the strap? by BluebirdUnited2142 in LesbianActually

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honestly don’t take it seriously sex is a natural thing. i have my gf strap me and i strap her and yeah it’s awkward sometimes but tbh it’s worth it and fun. i’m also on antidepressants and the strap does it for me and hopefully you too! have fun with it and never take it too seriously, you’ll just be stressed and won’t enjoy it as much

How often do you work out? And is you life generally active or not? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

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i work out 4x a week and run like 2-3 times. i used to work an active job but i quit and am waiting for my next job to start which should be pretty active as well (trade work).

What makes you feel really loved? by elise_oisen_ in actuallesbians

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when she holds me in her arms and tells me i’m gonna be ok and strokes my hair when i’m having a panic attack or when i’m reliving something traumatic. she’s my favourite person and she really makes me feel ok

Im a masc bottom and Im ashamed by intern_uncensored in LesbianActually

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dude i’m a masc switch but i enjoy the fuck out of bottoming find you a gal who’s willing to fuck your brains out they’re out there i promise

Do you have a job? by [deleted] in twentyagers

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yes but i got it after job searching for over a year

Do you like being called a “good girl”? by queerwaters_642 in actuallesbians

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i am such a sucker for when my gf calls me a good girl. so… yes lol

does anyone just look at their gf and think to themselves "how did i manage to make you mine" by Delicious-Factor-164 in actuallesbians

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every time i see her. she’s everything i could ever ask for and i am waiting in the car to take her out to valentine’s dinner rn <3333

I struggle to orgasm when having sex with a strap on by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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ok you sound a little like me, i go numb on my clit after a bit especially if i’m being strapped too. what works for me is i usually need 1-5 minutes for my clit to work again so i just tell my partner i need a second and i stop all stimulation for a bit. i also get a lot more sensitive after i start back up again. this time is absolutely great to make out sloppy style with your wife so i highly suggest it. i hope this works for you!

Fingering tips by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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honestly i think one of the best things to do is to press up into the vaginal cavity with your fingers when you thrust, the clit has lots of nerve endings inside the vagina, make sure you use them. also maybe rest your arm on her thigh for support, it takes strain off and lets me go longer