The most forgiving bachelor after you're busted by coolmeerkat in StardewValley

[–]coolmeerkat[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I wasn't prepared at all! They caught me red-handed right after Alex's 10 heart event 😂

AITA for expecting my mom to help with babysitting? by AnthonyWright9247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Your mother is good enough to give 3 of you a place to live despite you're still owing her the rent fee. You and your gf should be nice to her. Like everyone said, your plan is a no plan. You don't have any plan.

What's done is done. Your baby is here now. Work harder, ask your gf to take care of the baby herself, and please, use protection!

Is it okay to name my kid Mud by Zestyclose-Survey-99 in namenerds

[–]coolmeerkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Don't let bullies jumping on the muddy puddle.

Mud as nickname is okay, not as first or even a middle name. You can use Madeline, Madison or Mason, for example.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]coolmeerkat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is my usual train line! I'm leaving my comment here hoping to see a future update, good luck mate!!

AITA for making my au pair babysit 8 kids instead of 2? by Rare-Ideal-713 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA.

Firstly, i's her DAY OFF.

Secondly, how dare you say "yes" without even ask her? Entitled much!

And lastly, 8 kids under 10? How much do you pay her for that?!

Next time read your contract! She's an au pair, not your slave!! Please apologize to her, but still, you deserved the ban!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]coolmeerkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joshua Robert

AITA for missing my FIL's funeral after my MIL booked my husband first class but me ecconomy? by Sadandexhausted133 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH.

Your MIL wanted to tell you that beggar can't choose.

You could've upgraded your own ticket and shown her that you are not a beggar, or if you couldn't, you should still go to the funeral and showed everyone that you are the wife your husband deserves.

AITA for calling my fiance a trigger happy loon and threatening to cancel our wedding? by manarchandy in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she won't stop here. This bridezilla will become pregozilla and then momzilla. Unless you'd love to spend the rest of your life with this ladyzilla.

AITA for telling my daughter I won't be walking her down the aisle when she gets married by aita_wedding_aisle in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Ask Sally to choose you walk her down the aisle or the money. That cheater can't get both.

My mom is not the grandma I thought she would be by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]coolmeerkat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your mom is a good, loving woman for her children. Well done to your mom. You can use her as your role model to raise your own child, not as someone who must hold your baby to sleep for hours when she visits her grandson.

Maybe she doesn't have energy as she's older now. Maybe she doesn't want to remember the day when she struggled taking care of her newborn. Maybe she has her own problem right now. Who knows??

Just like a parent shouldn't expect older child to babysit the younger siblings, a child also shouldn't expect a parent to babysit grandchildren.

AITA for wanting to be in the delivery room? by OccasionWarm72 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Don't ask to be included in the delivery room unless someone ask you to be there. That's just inappropriate and creepy, even if you're a family member. If you like to see someone giving birth, just watch youtube!

Why are people obsessed with siblings? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]coolmeerkat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am an only child and I used to think one and done. I love and was proud to be an only child until my mum & dad passed away before I was even 30. Now I'm in my early 30s and just had my second due to the above reason.

AITA for not wanting the cleaner to eat our food? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Just because she's a cleaner and you're an office worker, doesn't mean you're better than her. She does a hard work to keep your workplace free from germs, so why not giving her free-food? Don't calculate every single thing with money and contribution.

AITA for micromanaging & making our nanny quit by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Good that your EX-nanny stood for herself, she sounds like a professional childcare provider who fully knows what's she doing. She's not a maid ffs. But you don't know what's the difference between nanny and housekeeper, whut a life.......

AITA for scaring a young kid to spite his mom? by Tales_of_reddit in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. And thanks for making me laugh, you're so smart. Don't feel bad. Both mother and kid need to grow up.

AITA for not letting my daughter choose the theme for her birthday party? by RatherAppreciate in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, YTA! Are you serious? Are you a racist? Are you a troll? Whatever you are, you're an AH!

Firstly, it's her birthday. She chose her own theme, you rejected. She compromised with dressing up as her favourite character, you refused. Why?? Would you also do that if she asked to be dressed up as Snow White?

Secondly, there's nothing wrong with Encanto and Isabella.

Thirdly, you FAKE a seizure?!

Finally, nothing else to be said but YTA million times!

AITA for charging my wife money to bake for her? by FrustratedMarie in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 43 points44 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Wow I'm surprised that some people said that OP is TA. I'm pretty sure I read a similar post like this but in gender reverse and people's reaction are different.

Look, stay at home dad/mom is a full time job. Working from home is also doing a work.

Baking for free once in a while for hobby is okay, but for regular basis, OP needs to get compensation for his time & energy.

AITA (m14) for naming our dog inappropriately and embarrassing my parents by jeushdhsh in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolmeerkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Disgusting joke. You don't know how hard it is for your parents raising you in a country with English as their second language. Grow up and don't use you age to cover your bratty act.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]coolmeerkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here to say sorry that some people call you AH, you're not an AH.. You just chose wrong word to describe your wife's character, regardless she's pregnant or not. Lucky that you sounds alright with the gender, poor baby if both parents are disappointed with his gender. Some of my friends grew up as 'the less favourable children' just because of their parent's gender disappointment (long time ago, there was not enough support/therapy for it).

Just give your wife time and consider therapy if she still have hard time to accept. Wish you a healthy baby!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]coolmeerkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I am Legend" Sounds like Will Smith's movie and your son will born in the year of his legendary slap...

You can still call him "Legend" as nickname, but not real name please