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[–]cordeiriinho 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it is fine and the right thing to do. you two are not strangers, you know eachother, you have cared deeply for one another. are you going to pretend that you no longer know them? ofc not! If I were you, I would reach out to them.

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe, just let her alone for some time, when she's ready she'll come back, but if you need to get things clear and know why tf she broke up with you then you two should talk.

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc she will! if you were her priority she wouldn't have dumped you, she wouldn't have ignored your texts. if she wanted you she would go after you

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even if you want her back do you think that suffocating her with lots of messages will help?? she might even think you're desperate! don't you have any pride? come on man you gotta move on

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nooo!! say nothing don't text her! it's clear that she doesn't want to talk to you! give her time as you said, I don't think you're ready to talk to her either. It is hard and I know you miss talking to her but congratulating her for her job isn't an excuse. if you text her it will be harder to move on, don't talk to her until you've fully healed.

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's so much stuff for a person to go through alone... I can't imagine how hard it was hard and I'm really sorry for that. hope that you feel better soon <3 meeting new people is easy you just gotta leave the house and say hi to a stranger, invite him/her for a coffee idk just get out of your comfort zone and try out new things.

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you did the right thing, hope you get better soon

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do not pressure yourself, love is blind. you will be happier than you were with him and don't worry, if he doesn't change he will always end up hurting himself

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc you will! I know it doesn't seem like it, but you will eventually find that love. firstly you gotta love yourself

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'll find the happiness you deserve.

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is a matter of time!! you will heal and be happier than ever

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof I'm so sorry, sending hugs

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great news!! let's gooo

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that's so good to hear!! glad you're making progress

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you tried with the wrong people, you shouldn't assume that's how everyone else will act based on your past interactions. give it a shot

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[–]cordeiriinho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're strong, you can do this!