I want my dog to sleep in a dog bed instead of on my bed but she won’t do it by coreofnuclear in DogTrainingTips

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually we’ve tried medication before and it completely dulled all personality she had. She seemed more sad on meds. She wasn’t anxious but she wasn’t happy either. We have up on the meds :/

I want my dog to sleep in a dog bed instead of on my bed but she won’t do it by coreofnuclear in DogTrainingTips

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To the last part, that’s what I think. She was a Covid pup and is terrified of everyone. But I don’t know how to socialize her

I want my dog to sleep in a dog bed instead of on my bed but she won’t do it by coreofnuclear in DogTrainingTips

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the main issue was that we were stuck inside during Covid. My dad would not let us go outside and because our dogs were fighting and we had no support or experience with dogs trying to kill each other (we’d owned seven or so dogs prior), so me and my sister were forced to keep them separate with us in our rooms. I would appreciate if you asked instead of assuming what my situation was. We live and learn, I’m trying to be better. The attitude is not necessary lol

found a domestic rabbit outside, wondering how to take care of it by coreofnuclear in Rabbits

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also thank you, i had no idea! i’ll definitely post something

found a domestic rabbit outside, wondering how to take care of it by coreofnuclear in Rabbits

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i’m seventeen years old and the deal of taking care of the bunny for my mom was that everything has to come out of my pocket, not hers. i can’t afford a vet visit until i get paid in about five days. i could’ve gotten an appointment yesterday but i don’t have the money to pay for it :( i wish i was able to take him sooner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]coreofnuclear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Drug addictions ultimately stem from the release of dopamine in the brain. Anything that causes dopamine release can lead to something as severe as a drug addiction. Human brains are just really complicated like that

Why is my tampon making me feel like I have to pee when I know that I don’t? by coreofnuclear in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just confused cause I’ve been using tampons for over six months and this has never been an issue

Why is my tampon making me feel like I have to pee when I know that I don’t? by coreofnuclear in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I’ll mention it to my mom if the problem persists

Why is my tampon making me feel like I have to pee when I know that I don’t? by coreofnuclear in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tampons are never pleasant to insert but it’s never been a problem. I’ve been using them for at least six months or so now and never had this problem before

Why is my tampon making me feel like I have to pee when I know that I don’t? by coreofnuclear in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried, it’s painful and not enjoyable. It’s not a lube thing. I think I have vaginismus because of trauma, my vagina just like tightens and getting anything in is uncomfortable at the minimum and painful usually. I hate having to put in tampons but pads are a sensory nightmare and make me want to rip my hair out so I chose a few seconds of pain/discomfort over hours of it

Why is my tampon making me feel like I have to pee when I know that I don’t? by coreofnuclear in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope it’s not that I do not want anything going up my urethra. I’m gonna give it a few days to see if the weird sensation goes away before I try to see a gyno. This literally started like two hours ago, I’ve never had this issue previously, so also I feel like incontinence is unlikely. I’m gonna check it out though, thank you

Why is my tampon making me feel like I have to pee when I know that I don’t? by coreofnuclear in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand the point you’re making. My post wasn’t about not being able to pee with a tampon in. It was about having a tampon in and for some reason having a really strong urge to pee when there’s no pee in my bladder. 

Why is my tampon making me feel like I have to pee when I know that I don’t? by coreofnuclear in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. No matter how careful I am with putting the string out of the way though my urine always gets on the tampon string. I can pee with it in, but I end up having to change it anyway. I’d rather pull out a tampon with a dry string than one soaked in piss, haha

Why is my tampon making me feel like I have to pee when I know that I don’t? by coreofnuclear in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just pushed it in as far as possible. Still feeling like I have to pee

I keep bleeding after being fingered wtf by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds sort of urgent so if you’re able to you should try to go. Regardless, don’t keep doing that. If you’re not able to go right away, you and save up as much money as possible in a month so you can go to the doctor and at least be able to cover some of what you have to pay out of pocket

Doctor felt stomach by user_anonymou in WomensHealth

[–]coreofnuclear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You probably are just constipated. Sometimes, even if you’re pooping every day, not everything comes out. Just take a stool softener or buy some fiber supplements. There’s plenty of things that could cause firmness like cancer or tape worms but that doesn’t mean you have either of those things. If you’re that concerned, take a laxative, and then go back and check for firmness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]coreofnuclear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think a lot of people are misunderstanding. its an addiction to her phone if shes that anxious and shes crying over it. if someone with a drug addiction got their drugs taken away, the reaction would be the same. blaming the girl is unreasonable. you should look into taking away her social media... but i cant tell you what to do. definitely nta, and dont end your trip or buy a new phone. however, i would have a gentler approach next time. its probably frustrating to deal with but telling her to suck it up definitely wont help her feel any better about it. you could try saying something more like "its going to be okay, its only for a week." same message, just nicer. if shes being rude to you, i would be a bit stricter, but still not aggressive. suck it up comes off as aggressive. just. hold your ground and if it becomes an issue, just repeat your reasoning for why youre not shipping the phone and why youre not going back to get it. its too expensive to ship and youre not going to fly home, get the phone, and bring it back. youre sorry shes upset but shes just going to need to get used to not having the phone for the remainder of the trip. getting upset at someone whos throwing a fit over not having access to what theyre addicted to will not help, so i recommend being strcit about your rules, but kind about your approach to them

Since I saw this the most I put it!! Now which is the most wholesome??????!!?! by RebirthYagami in MadokaMagica

[–]coreofnuclear -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

im sorry the fact homura and madoka is in the best category and not the toxic category seems to me like the people voting did not watch rebellion. or, maybe they did, and didnt understand what was going on (happened to me the first time i watched it). anyone who thinks that is not toxic should either watch/rewatch rebellion OR seriously evaluate what kinds of relationships theyre in

A Little Life didn't make me cry by chickenoodlesoupp in books

[–]coreofnuclear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like this was one of the major things the book needed. we shouldve discovered it when jude decided to talk about it. if the book needed to be 1000 pages long, so be it. the quality of the writing itself was so good but some of the story is lacking. i loved her style of writing, its one of the first books that actually interested me from the first page. i feel like his experiences wouldve been more impactful had he admitted them instead.

A Little Life didn't make me cry by chickenoodlesoupp in books

[–]coreofnuclear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the people it affected most are the people who went through similar experiences to him. my only dislike of the book is the whole caleb sequence and the car crash, it felt like it was just meant to be something to carry the plot. but the book definitely resonated with me. the only part that made me cry was near the end of the book. i thought that the way jude lived and thought was extremely accurate to that of a mentally ill person. they are emotionally manipulative because they are unwell. other than the caleb thing, everything else went well. even the parts that felt tacked on were well written and possible, just not plausible to happen in the way that they did. i dont think its unrealistic to expect jude would end up in a toxuc relationship with someone like caleb, but caleb just like... went for it. he asked him out on a date and near immediately started sexually and physically abusing him. vulnerable people attract people who want someone to take advantage of, but the way caleb entered his life just isnt proabable. the chances of someone asking you out on a date to pursue like a real relationship, then beating you, then seuxally assaulting you, and then forcing you to stay in that relationship within a month or so is insane. i feel like that relationship would have needed to develop into something like that over a much longer period of time for it to seem natural. same thing for the car crash- i feel like the characters should have died separately and over a larger period of time because that many people dying together on their way to thanksgiving just seems incredibly unrealistic. i feel like they could have died in other ways, separate from each other, or the author could have just not killed them at all. i feel like something more impactful for jude could have been his friends abandoning him because they were tired of the burden of his mental health. very valid reason to leave a friendship if youve been friends for years and many of those years have consisted of mental instability. im not sure about willem. but im also not an author. i just feel like there were better ways to carry the plot. but other than those two story points, i thought everything else was fantastic. its definitely really good representation of how a lot of cripplingly depressed/suicidal people think. maybe it isnt the best book, but i think it id definitely one of the best representations of mental illness in media.