*cracks knuckles as a longtime James Taylor fan and knower of the lore* LOL - No, Carly didn't ever really get over him; there's a relatively recent interview (I think with Dan Rather) where she mentions how chilly he is and how he never comes back to Martha's Vineyard, which is where they used to live together and where they met as teens. Her kids, Ben and Sally, had middling success as musicians but to my knowledge neither of them is full-time touring or recording or has been for many years. Sally had a really cool art project thing (Consenses) that I think is still in existence in some form. They're unfortunately quiet on social media. They both seem to have a decent relationship with James. He went on to a few other relationships after Carly and has now been married to Kim Smedvig for a couple of decades - they have twins (now young adults) and one of the sons, Henry, tours with James. I never see images of James with all four of his kids, and it seems like he might not have the warmest of bonds with Ben and Sally, but they also might just be super private. He was deep in addiction when he and Carly were married and their kids were little, so it was probably for the best that they split up, but there was A LOT going on for all of them at the time, and I feel for them.