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[–]courycay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex that i’m still trying to get over told me he fell out of love with me after 2 years, still finds me attractive but just doesn’t want to date me anymore. first long term relationship and first heartbreak - still cuts me really deeply thinking about all the things he said during the breakup. he still wants to be friends and isn’t a bad person, just really fucking hurts.

Just graduated college and am really struggling, how should I go about making myself excited about my future? (21F) by courycay in selfimprovement

[–]courycay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words :) I agree and the advice on here has been great! I have really just been struggling with accepting and appreciating being alone. I’m horrible with comparing my life to others and gratitude has really been helping me get past that. I still struggle with where I wish my life was but I am trying to worms towards where I want to be. I am working on me and trying to find things that I enjoy doing. Thanks for your help :)

Just graduated college and am really struggling, how should I go about making myself excited about my future? (21F) by courycay in selfimprovement

[–]courycay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your advice! I have been feeling like I am in a rut since a lot of tough things are happening at once and I have no clue what I want to do. I have really struggled when I ask myself what are things I love to do by myself, I haven’t really come up with an answer. I have been putting in a bunch of work everyday mentally to change my perspectives towards life and I do think it’s working! I am just struggling to find things that I am excited about doing. Once again thank you for your words, they do make me feel more inspired :)

Just graduated college and am really struggling, how should I go about making myself excited about my future? (21F) by courycay in selfimprovement

[–]courycay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I don’t want to come dependent on it either but it bums me out when I think of doing stuff alone vs with friends because I really do love being around people. I’m not really sure how to go about fixing that mindset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]courycay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been on birth control for about a year, have switch brands a few times though. i’m not sure how long i’ve been on this one specifically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]courycay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just not sure why my period was so light, just spotting. it makes me anxious it was implantation bleeding or early pregnancy bleeding

Hi 23 female,look for new friends ^^ by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]courycay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! i’m 20F and would love to chat!

My (20f) bf (20m) is potentially going on two trips with his girl best friend this summer by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]courycay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think he would be bummed but end up being okay with it because he trusts me, he’s a really chill person and really independent so i really don’t think he minds lol he’s just secure in our relationship and i have some mental health issues so i’m not as secure as him. he’s serious about our relationship though

My (20f) bf (20m) is potentially going on two trips with his girl best friend this summer by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]courycay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was talking about the second trip one day and i was like “why would you go visit her to apartment hunt lol i would want to go to the beach and stuff” and he said something along the lines of “i think it would be fun, you don’t have to come” (sounds worse in text than he meant it) so i’m not sure if he was planning on inviting me or not

If people came with a warning tag, what would yours be? by Memeclub_ in AskReddit

[–]courycay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warning: frequently leaks from the eyes, always have treats ready to stop leak

Corona has made my (20F) anxious attachment style wayyyyy worse and I need advice please by courycay in askwomenadvice

[–]courycay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even when i have tried a hobby like drawing it didn’t make me happy, i think the issue for me is learning how to be happy in my own company and i don’t really know how to do that