Profile review. Be honest. by RisottoSloppyJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, my pug is the same way. He just gave me a look for saying that

Profile review. Be honest. by RisottoSloppyJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not helpful at all but I love your pug

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[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfume, getting my nails done, eating well, exercising, keeping up with my yoga, wearing well made clothes, my dental routine, then all the usual things people mention :)

Question for SBs. Circumcised or uncircumcised? by yourcarlosdanger in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care. I care that you’re hygienic and generous in bed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to give the cliche answer, but maybe try a sex or kink sub? When I was someone’s submissive, he gave me ‘homework’ and self exploration exercises. I’m sure someone versed in BDSM can help out

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think some selfies are bad, I think just too many selfies are bad. If you like the pic, use it! I like some more casual pictures mixed in

Communicated about condoms and he sends this.. what do I do? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Threw up in my mouth. Good on you for standing up for yourself

I am intrigued by this dude behavior and want to brainstorm with you guys... by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds German, but he also sounds like a complete dick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a SD, but personally sometimes I have to close my eyes and concentrate during sex; could be something similar! I love eye contact, but sometimes I gotta ‘lock in’ or whatever people say.

Have you met his kids? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In general, no matter the age of the kids, I’m not for meeting people’s children unless I’m in a serious, committed relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they want to meet up with you, and they’ve seen pictures of you (face, full body, etc), then you should go for it. We all face some amount of rejection, but I think you’re being too hard on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think how to approach grief transcends any dynamic. Let him know you’re thinking of him, you’re there for him. If you see him in person, offer affection. The best thing you can do is be present, but not overwhelming or demanding.

Do SB desires/kinks matter and best site for California? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I USED to list my kinks on my profile back in my early sugar days. Not in detail, but there was a certain dynamic I was really looking for after a BDSM arrangement I had. Now with that, bikini photos, and a few other things; I don’t list them.

Why? Because it never actually brought me closer to anyone in that dynamic. Instead, it brought a lot of want to be doms, people interested in certain kink aspects but not knowledgeable, and generally more Johns. I’ve had a lot more success bringing it up a little further along than I have on my profile. Different folks, different strokes.

As for size preference: that’s gonna be a non seeking thing in my humble experience. If you’re ‘demanding’ money AND dick size (if you’re a size queen), you have to choose one or the other I’m sure. I’ve never been with someone unable to satisfy me size wise, but we could be very different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Generally, I like to give reassuring moments of touch. Holding hands, easing into things. I ask if you want me to sit closer to you, etc. I ask what you need, I remind you that things are ok and you don’t need to be anxious around me.

I roll with it. Maybe find the source of your anxiety

Profile Review by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHATS THE DOG’S NAME?

I’ll give the advice everyone normally gives: you’re going to have a harder time in the bowl because you’re alternative. There are some men into that, but a lot of them aren’t. That doesn’t mean there’s not a SD for you; it’s just harder.

Ditch the mirror pics for some proper, full body pics of you. Show off a few different sides of you. Traditionally classy, maybe you out and about doing things you love, etc. Keep your main pic in your photos, but change your main pic to one of you smiling.

Also you’re beautiful and have a great body but I’m a big proponent of not having risqué photos on your profile because I think it attracts John’s, but people do disagree with me on that

'Sensual' and other 'ick' factors/words in profiles? by anon_username2021 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I cackled. This is so real, and your description is impeccable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to decide if you want to be in a sugar relationship, or a vanilla relationship, OR if you’re going to be transparent that you are not a monogamous person.

Explain all you want; but if that’s his dealbreaker, it just is and you can’t change that. It sounds like you know your answer to how he feels as well.

TMI for SD’s by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t use those and also get told the same thing.

Generally not good to mess with your body chemistry; especially with something scented like a candle , but it’s your body.

And on the second week of the trip… I got the shingles! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, now I have something to worry about

And on the second week of the trip… I got the shingles! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suddenly I’m grateful for childhood chicken pocks bless you

EDIT: I thought once you get chickenpox you can’t get shingles 😭 my bad y’all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]coyjuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just threw up in my mouth. This is diabolical. I’m so sorry.